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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could she be into me? She doesn't know I'm a lesbian!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here goes...... I'm a 25 year old lesbian, I work with a women in her 40s, she doesn't know I am gay and I personally wouldn't have said she was but she seems flirty with me? How can I tell if she's into me? She spoils me giving me free stuff, doing all she can to help,... (163 words)

My girlfriend has a bad habit of canceling our dates or plans if her family suddenly comes up with things they would like her to attend or do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

4 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has a bad habit of canceling our dates or plans if her family suddenly comes up with things they would like her to attend or do. We've been going out for a couple of years and this has gotten slowly worse, but it's at the point now where I notice it a lot.... (287 words)

To forgive or not to forgive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya guys, i really hope someone out there can give me a good perspective on my situation. Im not going to go into detail but my dilemma is really the whole 'forgive or not forgive' scenario. I became friends with a guy and we decided to see each other. Things didn't work out ... (371 words)

Part of me still wants to be with this woman even though I don't think she can be what I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (M) age 51-59 - I was in a long distance relationship that has since faded out after 9 months. My problem is there is a piece of me that still wants to spend my life with her although I know she is probably not capable of being the warm, caring compassionate woman that I truly want. I am ... (143 words)

How will I ever get over the other woman that I fell in love with?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

4 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm married and fell in love with another woman. It was a deep love that I never felt or can explain. Although cheating and leaving went against everything I believed in, I truly felt I found my soul mate. I never felt my chest and heart in every decisions I made, this was not ... (293 words)

I want my boyfriend back and have no idea how to cope without him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am deeply in love with my ex boyfriend who has dumped me because he couldn't decide whether he wanted a single life or a relationship so it caused a lot of fights. I havn't seen him for 2 months and he phones me about once a week which is nice but I'm not sure if it is ac... (370 words)

Too complicated? The guy I like has a girlfriend who is pregnant by another guy! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Well i really don't know what to do.I really like this guy (talked to him a few times and he so sweet) but recently found out be has a gf. However a friend told me she is preggo with another guys baby. The baby daddy is not responding. At the same i feel like this kid ... (164 words)

So my problem is my husband says I must convince her to move back. Or he is divorcing me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age - My problems with my 25 year old step-daughter have once again reared their ugly head. She moved in with us about a year ago and it was very difficult living with her. I wanted to sit down before she moved in and discuss, like 3 grown roommates, how we were going to live but my ... (470 words)

How do I stand up to my controlling mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a controlling mother who tells me I cant move out of the house until Im married. she also tells me anywhere i go and whatever i do must be run by her. im 22 years old. how do i stand up to her??... (45 words)

Cybercheating, is it okay? Should I only wait to dump him til he actually does it in person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about a year. And I oddly have a strange attachment towards him. We mostly are always together unless we know it’s a type of situation that we shouldn’t go together. We have a lot of similar friends and live together. I’ve known him for about 2 ... (1065 words)

He is very confusing! I want to know what the hell he is thinking? Does he like me is he unsure because I am still legally married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am seperated and have been seeing the neighbor boy who is 26. I am 37. We have slept together a few times, But also he has stayed the night and just cuddled without sex. He will text me and I will text him, but sometimes he will go 3-4 weeks wihout seeing me and than this ... (157 words)

I feel that he's an insecure person who wants to possess me as soon as possible and he is not ready to give me time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am in a situation that I don't know what to do. I will consider your advice very carefully. Due to bad investments, I happened to lose a lot of money. I have always been close to a friend and I shared it with him without any bad intention in my mind. Since he has feel... (235 words)

How to hide feelings from the one you deeply fall for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - One early summer night, I met him – the guy I barely talk to at the gym at a bar. He grabbed my head and tried to kiss me, I turned him down, that was how the things between us started. About him: He stands out from people by his height and his gorgeousness. About me: I ov... (693 words)

I am at the verge of begging him to take me back. Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My ex-bf broke up with me a month ago. I havent contacted him from the day he broke up with me as he said he's gonna block me in facebook, his phone, messagenger... Long story short, even after a month i miss him terribly, i knew he was abusive towards me and im... (126 words)

Is this a good ploy to spice up our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been with my girl friend for over 6 years now and we are almost running out of sexual adventures. She's very outgoing and have good friends out of which i know one guy she seem to like a bit more than the other. While recently making out, i started fantasizing making ... (102 words)

I found out that the woman I've been dating isn't a virgin as she hinted before!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Background: im an atheist, also a virgin, I dont usually find virginity something necessary in a partner, but I do find it quite beautiful and special. Most of the feelings Ive built up for her in this time stem from the fact I belived (one time I told her about my ... (301 words)

I like a guy but I've slept with his friend in the past, before I knew him. I've been honest and told him but what do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! So I have a bit of a situation on my hands and could really use some help and advice with this. So, for the past year I was living and working in France and recently came home a couple of weeks ago. While I was out there, being a young single girl I met a... (696 words)

My husband is a great dad except for his yelling!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is a great dad but if he has to ask my son and daughter to do somethng--ie clean up their rooms or take a shower more than twice, he starts yelling at them. My son is 10 and is really affected by that. he just starts crying and has told me several times that he ... (194 words)

So how do I get him to be more responsible on stuff that matters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - His loving and a friend and his my boyfriend. His good with words and reassurances and anything very trivial he will willingly do.... He will call 5 times a day..Ask how am doing when he gets good money, he will spoil me... He will be great on stuff that is in his comfort ... (167 words)

Why on earth did I feel the need for an affair? And will the stupidity fade over time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. Feeling pretty stupid really. I'm married and have been for 21 years. We've had our ups and downs but seem relatively happy. Earlier this year we had some work down at our house. The guy doing the work seemed nice and was very professional. Because we were happy with ... (797 words)

How can I control these feelings about my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey so I have been having a lot of wird things happening over the summer. Ok so over summer I have been missing my crush do much. I've been having more dreams about him more often than I do. I don't know if that's normal or not but. And I feel like I see him everywhere . I ... (117 words)

How do I get the OK for hormone therapy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a male who is able pass as a female when dressed as such. I have always been naturally feminine and have been mistaken as a girl dressed as a guy. Two years ago I decided to go female full time. Since then I had a little facial feminization surgery (nose job, lip ... (191 words)

I'm sickened by what our relationship has become. What am I to do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F) age 41-50 - I was introduced to a friend of my now brother-in-law 10 years ago and I dated him for about a month. I wasn't into getting into a relationship at that point in my life and I wasn't even sure if I liked him in that way. Everyone would tell me how obsessed he was with me, and it ... (484 words)

Do you think he's ignoring me because I refused his marriage proposal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am going to try to keep this short. So there's this guy. November last he asked for my hand in marriage with my bro in law. i did not know the boy then. I had never seen him. However, since my parents want me to pursue my further education, they refused the prop... (385 words)

My ex is sleeping with my coworker! How do I get him to go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F) age 30-35 - So long story short my ex boyfriend broke up with me . He left me for some other girl but he keeps co,ing to my job first with his new girlfriend and then he's dating another girl who works at my job from another department. Idk why he keeps coming I feel harnessed in away ... (203 words)

Please have dinner ready by 8:30 he asks me, but can't be bothered to let me know he'll be late?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 5 years asked me to cook dinner for him and his brother after his soccer game. Please have it ready by 8:30 he said. So off he goes. I had to race home from errands to have it done by then. 9 pm comes along and he finally calls to tell me they have been drinking ... (217 words)

My boyfriend tells his friends and family everything...we have no privacy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year. We are very happy but seem to disagree on matters of privacy in our relationship. For instance, when we first had sex, he told a lot of his friends. I didn't think much of that, and okayed that since it was his first time and I ... (529 words)

Advice on getting him out of my head needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (?) age 30-35 - So I have liked this guy for 9 months now and I can't seem to get him. ut of my head. He has a girlfriend or did last time I knew, she said how she was moving back to where she's from. And i'm not sure if he's going with her or not. He lives in one state right now and I live i... (121 words)

My boyfriend's new boss is too flirtatious...what should he do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of one year recently started a new job. He is an extremely friendly and social person, just as a part of his personality. He told me a week into the job that he was getting vibes from his boss that she might be interested in him. She came on rather aggressively 2 ... (378 words)

Its over btwn us but I can't break the communication. Please advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I had a long distance relationship with a woman who I started dating from the time I was served for divorce 9 months ago. While we both know the relationship is now over I am having a hard time breaking all communication with her. I know she is not the woman for me but I am ... (110 words)

I need advice on how to keep this going, and how do I develop a serious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay, so I am like, really confused. I'm going into the 9th grade, which will make me a freshman and my boyfriend a sophomore. This is the second time that we've dated, the last time it was for 5 days shy of 2 months and I had no idea what I did right or wrong! He is hon... (226 words)

And then he said, "I'm not gonna tell you to stay, I won't be selfish, do whatever makes you happy" Did he ever really care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) please help me. The more answers the better I think. Anyway I've been in a 2 year relationship. Its been crazy. Of course we had our UPS and downs. But during all of this our plan was to move in together and become students. I moved out of my mothers house and I thou... (317 words)

Why is he fighting me? I tried to convince him but he told me we can't be together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4218 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy in August 2012. At first we were kind of friends but later on we became so close. He told me he loved meand wanted me to move with him. Because i had family situations i said to him i would love to move with him when i can. We kept calling and texting and ... (297 words)

Should I see him? If not, why? I'll need tips to avoid seeing him if that's the advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

4 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend (ex boyfriend now) for a year (prior to that, we had a year and a half relationship). Since the begginging of the year, he completely changed, he used to be the sweetest guy and in the world and he suddenly started ... (533 words)