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I need fun things that we could do that doesn't involve sex but that would turn my B/f on when we are getting intimate

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Question - (30 June 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2013)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months now..we have decided there won't be any sex(I believe in sex after marriage and he's ok with that)

So I need fun things that we could do that doesn't involve sex but that would turn him on when we we are getting intimate?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2013):

You're being childish. Why do you want to turn him on when there will be no sex? Will you make him orgasm through other means? If not then you are playing an unfair game. Is it because you want to feel sexy, and special that you've got the power to turn him on? Well newsflash: a guy is 90% turned on simply because you're a woman, you dont have to do much. Just be careful coz with this naive attitude you wont be a virgin much longer (assuming you are).

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (1 July 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI agree that you are playing with fire.

being close and intimate physically leads to wanting more... you want more and more and then it's "well I'll just put the tip in" and then it goes from there... TRUST ME on this one...

before I make any suggestions can you tell me why you want to turn him on just to tell him NO?

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (1 July 2013):

There are a million things you can do that don't involve vaginal penetration, but the more you push the boundaries, the more frustrated he'll get.

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