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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I’m afraid my impatience and my willingness to speak my mind, totally unabridged, will cause more harm than good

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - For a 20 year old, I’m not very attached to my phone. Call me old fashioned, but I’d rather talk face to face, enjoy personal contact. And sure, I use email for work and school, and find time to text girlfriends, but as a single guy, I enjoy my freedom a lot. I know my best ... (921 words)

Could I be doing something wrong in my dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm hoping someone can help me. Since I've never really been in a relationship before, I made an account on a website where you can meet and get to know new people in your area. It's like a dating site. Through out the last 5 months or so that I've had the site, I have m... (361 words)

Will he ever say "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - hello everyone.....I have a question which may sound silly but its really messing with my emotions right now. I met this guy we have been officially going out for nearly 2 months. I told him I loved him which I know I do so please don't say I cant do its too soon because I k... (165 words)

Am I wrong to feel a little bit hurt by this? I spent 5 years letting his mother say what she wanted to me and after I finally stand up for myself he goes round like nothing happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles Got a problem, I've been with my bf now for 5 years his family have never really accepted me in all this time and thing got worse when I went into an apprenticeship rather than go to university. My bf moved in with me and my family last July as he could... (597 words)

Fat Issues and lots of Tissues: Question is, why would I stay in a relationship where I have to change to suit his ideals?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age - Fat issues and tissues So my SO keeps calling me a fatso. Mmm that's abusive. I need to loose, for myself, 20 lbs Also in menopause and also 52 years old. But I'm very active, trying now to boost my metabolism I have put my relationship with him on hold until I loose ... (218 words)

Do you think he misses me and is starting to think he made a mistake or is he just being insensitive and doesn't realize that I need more time to get over him before we can be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. He said he cared about me and loved me but he wasn't in love with me. I had already told him that I love him. It's been 2 weeks and in that time he has sent me text messages acting like we're best friends and were never ... (108 words)

Threesome with her ex. Mature answers please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn't so much a question, but more of me asking for advice. So basically I know people are going to think I am weird, but here it goes. I have a fantasy of watching my girlfriend give oral to another guy. I have been with her for 2 years and we live together. Please do... (309 words)

Any other females that have been through these feelings of the clock ticking have any advice? Or any males that could give me advice from their viewpoint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 and I'm not not married, finishing school with my graduate degree in 2 years and by then I will be close to 30. It's starting to scare me only because I always thought that I would have met the right guy by now and all my friends are in relationships, starting to get ... (337 words)

We just met and he told me how much he loves me, and that we could be friends with benefits if I'm not ready for a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I only met this guy who is of the same age as me, [mod note; age 17] 2days ago. He was very kind, everyone seems to enjoy his company. Yesterday he asked for my phone no. and i gave it to him without any hesitation and anxiety. Later on that day he called me and told me how ... (135 words)

Any ideas on surprising my boyfriend with a holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Not a big problem at all just looking for advice! I have decided for my one year anniversary with my boyfriend to book a holiday (go back to the place we had our first holiday - Egypt last January !) I know I'm thinking ahead but I want to pay in instalments so I... (234 words)

Is it wrong to send my ex bf's stuff back to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up three months ago. I initiated the breakup because we were in LDR and he drifted apart. I told him a hundred times if he had no love for me, please just feel free to tell me, I would understand since it's so difficult to be apart. However, he lied to me ... (183 words)

Uncomfortable about what happened, should I bring it up or pretend it never happened?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupids. Last night a family friend asked me to spend the night at his house, his mom whom Im very close with wanted me to stay as well because it would be fun.. I am twenty two and thought it would be a little weird since he is sixteen. He also had a friend over who ... (145 words)

I can talk to her and try to establish a friendship, which I imagine would make me happier, OR continue living my life imagining different ways this could turn out. Which?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - It's been a year and three months since my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, ending a two year relationship. It was a complete shock to me at the time(unexpected), especially since she started seeing another guy within the same week. When she ended it with me she told me that... (374 words)

I have a crush on this guy from an online dating site - advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I signed up for an online dating site for people of the same religion as me for a laugh, and I ended up doing a search on guys for fun. There was someone whom I really fancy by looking at his pictures/profile - but he works in a different country and is around 5 years older ... (303 words)

I'm getting the same feeling in the pit of my stomach as I had when I last caught him messaging a female co-worker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I haven’t been on here for a while but I have come to a point in my relationship where I need advice please. My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 5 years now and we have lived together for 4. Our relationship has had its problems some pretty major ones just over a... (618 words)

How do I emotionally cope with the aftermath of a C-section?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 37 weeks pregnant and just went for my weekly doctor's appointment. I found out a few things: my baby is already nearly 8lbs and breech and I'm 1cm dilated. I had hopes the entire time of having a natural birth, but the doctors aren't optimistic, considering that I have ... (240 words)

He said he is not ready, should I wait or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, It all started a few weeks ago. I started talking to this boy i knew back in school. I'm 26 now, he is 27. We went out for coffee on the first date, then a week later for coffee and lunch. He started getting extra attentive and we would be talking to each othe... (405 words)

Do women get wet panties without physical stimulation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

27 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Women do you get wet panties - in a sexual sense - without getting physical? By this I mean without someone physically stimulating you. Several years ago a girl I was friendly with came round to my flat and had a quick shower after work.When she got out she stayed w... (239 words)

My girlfriend never randomly contacts me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - So I'm with my girlfriend for 2 years now, we lived together and everything was good, we never fight and are happy together. 2 weeks ago she had to move to another town that's 1 hour flight away to take care of some things at home. Since then I noticed a distinct pattern... (426 words)

Is an awkward first kiss a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had my first, very first, kiss with my, again, first boy-I-like-and-he-likes-me. And I got to say, it was...awkward. Don't get me wrong, I really like this guy! But we are both going off to different colleges (same state though) this fall and have yet to talk about the ... (93 words)

My girlfriend doesn't seem to enjoy sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend almost never initiates sex and whenever we do have sex, she doesn't orgasm. We're 2 months into the relationship and I'm not sure if I'm ready to start a life with someone who isn't sexually attracted to me. In the start of the relationship she at least at... (343 words)

This feels like a part-time relationship, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Okay, haven't been on here in a while, but I need help. It's the same guy- he has a drinking problem and in the past had a drug issue that we've finally hurdled over two years ago (been together going on four). Basically, we break up ALL THE TIME. He's been good to me most of ... (217 words)

Why did my ex send me a photo of him and his new girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1146 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex boyfriend and I haven't talked since we broke up. He has nerve to send me a picture of him and his new girl. I'm not going to lie, it did break me. I was getting over him and I'm happy for him but why would he do that? ... I need help:-(... (55 words)

He makes me out to be the bad guy but he's the one who cheated and lied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling manipulated and would appreciate an outside perspective on this Seeing this guy for over a year. We were for sure monogamous at one point (9 mos) but he would never fully commit to me as his girlfriend :( He went out of town for two weeks and I asked repeatedly... (154 words)

I thought we were close so why has my cousin told everyone but me that she's expecting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (?) age 30-35 - So I lived with my cousin for months, we always were laughing and having a great time and we told each other everything and then I moved back "home" which is in another state and since she hasn't really talked to me. I dont know what changed, I found out today from my mom that ... (134 words)

Is he having trouble with sex because of my body? Or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my fiance and I have been together for almost three years, and most everything has been great. The one thing that really concerns me happens during sex. He has a very difficult time getting and remaining erect, as well as reaching orgasm, especially when he's inside me. We ... (181 words)

In the closet or able to enjoy all types of sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - For many years now i've know that I wasn't 100% straight, I use to masturbate to gay porn, loved it as much as straight porn, however I lived a "normal" life and began having sex with girls, which I enjoyed always and never had a probably performing, in fact I often have ... (228 words)

I don't like it that my boyfriend has started using instagram

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I am 27 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. I know he loves me very much and we both see a longterm future together. He recently started using instagram. I have a jealousy over it for some reason..i feely silly but it's how i feel. The friends he f... (248 words)

Afraid to tell my boyfriend I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and we've never said I love you to each other in person. We've only said it over text that's it. I really want to tell him on the phone tonight and I hope I can do it. I know he'll say it back, and I think a reason he doesn't say ... (128 words)

Is the guy I'm dating just a bandaid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive had a very complicated romantic history lately... i dated a guy off and on since 2010 (currently not together) we had a child together and moved into an apartment this year after a few months we split up because he seriously miss treated me and what ever else i started ... (170 words)

Booty call to something more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy via a friend. Hung out a few times. Ran into each other after a night if drinking and slept together. He texted me the next day. We texted allot. Somewhere along the line it came to light that all I wanted was a booty call. He asked if that's really all I wanted I ... (118 words)

Should I be there for him now while he is weak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, Over a year now with my biyfriends, most of the advices i took her about out issues was to dump him for leaning towards cheating and for being controlling. To do so i needed to change, and i built more self confidence and thought possitive , i am today stronger t... (281 words)

Why wasn't I enough? Why is this girl already in his heart the way I once was?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

27 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to jump from relationship to relationship, until I learned that you need time to breathe and be alone in between. After an especially drawn out break up, I decided to spend one year single. Although it was difficult, it was also the most rewarding time of my life. I ... (1141 words)