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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

First time anxiety. How do I overcome it? Still have not consumated the relationship fully yet, but want to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - What's up everyone, totally new to the website and first time poster but hoping to get a lot more active. Just some background on me so you know where I'm coming from. 21 years old, virgin (but hopefully not for long, more on that in a bit) Well last semester this one ... (882 words)

What are your opinions on a spouse using a fleshlight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I noticed there is alot of questions about porn, I don't like the use of it myself but I would like to know about your opinions on your spouse using a plastic vagina (fleshlight) or sex stories would that bother you as much? It wouldn't me, I'm not sure how people can ... (63 words)

Date didn't even call or text to say he wasn't coming for our date!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and a guy suppose to be going to the movies but he didn't come pick me up from my house, he told me he would come and we already made plans, I'm already dressed waiting for him but he didn't show up... He didn't even text me or call to tell me he wasn't coming, what should I ... (71 words)

B/f and I broke up and I got kicked out of the group of friends. Should I have not broken up with b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Something bad has recently happened in my life and I'm hoping somebody here could maybe help. I was with a guy for about a year and a half. Him and I shared a large group of friends and all of us were really close friends. I know it sounds corny, but this time was the hap... (257 words)

How do I get him to last more than 2 minutes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What can i do to get my new boyfriend who is only 23 to last more than 2 minuts? And how can i get him to do more foreplay?... (29 words)

How do I read the signs from this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm basically just wondering if this guy likes me. I've been out of the dating scene for so long (was in a long term relationship and have purposely stayed single since) i'm not even sure HOW to read the signs but my friends all seem to think he does. If he does HOW do I ev... (1098 words)

Please help me to get this very important person to be a permanent part of my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am looking for some advice. I have liked this guy for the past six years. We kind of grew up together, as a child I idolized him and he was the big brother I never had. But as I got older I started to develop real feelings for him. Fast forward to now, I still like ... (211 words)

Whats the ideal thing to say when a friend wont text you back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats the ideal thing to say when a friend wont text you back? It makes me so angry that he can't even answer a simple how are you, but I don't want to say anything to anger him. If I ask him why I dont think i'll get an answer.. Part of me wants to mkae him feel bad n reali... (128 words)

HPV from oral sex? Can someone explain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - HPV from oral sex, can someone please explain this to me? So you get the HPV in your throat by oral sex with someone who has slept with an infected person? How do you get tested? I have had quite a bit of unprotected oral sex as I'm guessing a lot of other people have. I ... (72 words)

Why would someone cheat so much on their boyfriend...and should I let my friend know what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my good friend's girlfriend is cheating on him with several different men. I know it's not my business but I know the guys and since I talk to them often they've eventually told me about this girl. I've seen her myself kiss other guys and other stuff of that nature. A c... (252 words)

Shy to make contact--what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - If a girl behaves like uncomfortable, shy to make eye contact with u what does that mean?... (17 words)

Is it weird that I'm completely shaven down there now and my girlfriend isn't?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This question is about pubic hair shaving on men. I usually trim everything to a 1 on my electric trimmer and shave underneath the shaft and all of the scrotum; thus, leaving all the hair above and on the sides intact, albeit trimmed very short. This morning, however, I ... (271 words)

I'm tired from working so much and husband says he'll go elsewhere if I don't want to have sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So here i am back here again... not sure what to do anymore... i been with my husband off and on for 17 yeats but have only been married 6 months .... i work all the time to support our family and hes been getting upset with me cuz im not in the mood... he has recently told me ... (155 words)

My girlfriend will not contact me when she is visiting her mother. Should I ask her about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. We are both divorced, have our own kids and save for a minor hiccup in our relationship this past January we have a good strong bond. Each morning when we are waking up at our own places, she sends me a text saying g... (283 words)

I'm feeling threatened by another girl and don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. We've had a great relationship and have never really had any problems until recently. My boyfriend's friend has a new girlfriend. She's a very pretty girl and I'm really not trying to hate on her but she flirts with ... (351 words)

My inlaws want my husband to send me away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - have being married for two years nw bt there is issues between me and my inlaws,what i say and what i didnt say my husband sisters told my husband parent and my husband parent told my husband to send me out of is house but my husband didnt accept that,cos my husband didnt send ... (101 words)

She said she was not sure where it was going.What do you guys think I should do to get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I was going out with a girl who is 25 and I am 35. We are just perfect for each other and in a really caring and loving relationship. We broke up recently abt a month ago with both of saying and knowing we deeply love each other. We have talked about twice after that... (304 words)

I'm wondering what's up with this guy? I do have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age - A guy I work with loves to stare at me all the time. He watches who I'm talking to, especially his close friends. When he is not around me then his friends chat to me. Once he's back on the scene one shuts his mouth and the other looks to see if the guy is watching. I... (77 words)

Why does everyone naturally assume that when a person reaches a certain age, that they naturally want to have kids? Because some people are comfortable being childless

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I would like to know why everyone naturally assumes that when you reach a certain age, you want to have kids. And if you politely say that you don't, they think there is something wrong with you. What's wrong with not wanting kids? The world's population is not goin... (141 words)

We are dating and he seems protective and sometimes jealous but I don't know what he is thinking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a little long, and slightly detailed, so I apologize in advance. I started dating a guy a few months ago, who has only been separated with his wife for almost a year. Against every logical reasoning, I continued to date him, after the first date, when I found out... (725 words)

Could dating someone in our group of friends ruin our cohesion ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have five male friends that I both work with and go to social events with, such as movies, concerts, restaurants, etc. We are all in the same "group". I am normally considered "one of the guys" as I generally do not hang around other females... at all! Two of the guys i... (289 words)

It is just his Disrespect for me? Or is this because he is insecure about the fact that I work with men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a journeyman commercial painter. And yes as a woman in a mans world I already deal with enough crap. My bf has absolutely no respect for what I do. He thinks there's no physical labor involved in my job. I tried to explain to him that I had to go through 3 years ... (180 words)

Do girls ever think about the Good Guy who they lost contact with earlier?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age - Girls,well what I would like to ask is, if you been with bad boys, an one that you thought you loved, broke up with you, an you were heart broken. And then you met a really nice guy , an you were together for a few months, he treated you so good, you didn't know how to take ... (195 words)

How do I get him to tell his kids that I'm not there to pay their way?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have posted about my LDR before and this is kind of a follow up and a question. As I have said before about me not being invited to his house and being the one that is out all the money on dates and weekend trips to visit and I was worried about our upcoming vacation... (596 words)

Is it just time to walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, i have a boyfriend who i've been with for 6 months and we argue constantly. he does mean everything to me and i dont know what i'd do without him. recently, we've been arguing more than usual. we're on the verge of splitting up but i don't want to loose him because he's ... (118 words)

Shall I wait and talk in person or call her up and talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically I asked a girl to go bowling with me a while back and she said yes, but she has been busy with exams so time has gone by but now she's free to do it. Anyway my problem is that I'm unsure that she thinks it's a date even though she seems to like me but can never be ... (181 words)

A gorgeous guy appears interested in me but I lack confidence in myself!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

8 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! How shall I begin? Well, the purpose of me writing is to gather other people's thoughts and advice on this situation that I'm currently in because I don't know what to think of it. I would also like to clarify that I would like to remain anonymous, but I... (493 words)

My mother doesn't accept me as I am and its really getting me down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Please give me some advice or help on this; In the past I have dated guys and girls, I believe in love has no gender, and as long as your happy why does it matter? unfortunately my mum does not think this. I have been in a relationship now for nearly 10 happy months, with my ... (268 words)

I think our relationship has run its course. Should I just end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we lived together for four. I was made redundant at the new year and got a job offer in another part of the country which, after much deliberation, I decided to take. My boyfriend could not leave his job then, but requested to be ... (248 words)

How much weight loss would be achieveable in 4 weeks time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I know this is not a diet and exercise board, but I also know a few of the aunts/uncles have mentioned losing weight in previous posts so I thought I might get some good advice here. So last week I started an exercise/fitness regime to try to get in better shape before I b... (367 words)