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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I cant read if hes being flirty or friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Ok so basically I have NO IDEA how to read this guy, we are really close friends and I dont know if what he says and how he acts is just flirting or if its just the fact that we are so close friends that we can say and do things like that and it doesn't even matter. (I ... (418 words)

How can I avoid my cursed relationship status of FWBs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts, I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. I have not been in a serious relationship since my last one about 2/3 years ago. It was a breakup that set me over the edge and made me swear off relationships for awhile. So I decided to have fun rather than be serious and I ha... (612 words)

Why do I have this nervous feeling in my stomach about my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi basically I've been having trouble with Anxiety/worried feeling in my stomach for a week. I believe that I don't know what started it. However because it was making me feel bad I was off with my girlfriend of 7 months. Now all of a sudden I started worrying that I didn't ... (168 words)

How do I put it and keep it in my head and have it locked up in there, that its really over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I get that he doesn't want me back now. I know it. I keep telling myself that. I know for a fact that its over. I don't understand why I still keeep coming back to him. Its annoying cause I send him this text brigade, text after text after text ranting asking for him back. ... (374 words)

Its false projecting when she's making her lips look larger than they are!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl, who is incredibly beautiful, funny, smart and so easy to get along with! One the thing that I found alluring about her was the fullness of her lips. And we've been on a few dates and yesterday we went out in the day and I noticed her lips weren't as full as ... (228 words)

I went through a bad break up. When will I be me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I just need some words of wisdom I guess... I'm a bit embarrassed that I need to come online and ask people who don't know me, but just because I'm pretty sure my friends are sick listening to me. Maybe I just need to vent? I don't know.. I always feel better when I get ... (482 words)

How to ask her out without seeming clingy or random?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl a few weeks ago at uni through a friend and she stayed back a couple of hours to study with me alone. I really liked her and we had some good conversation so I got her number, however it was right before exams and she was busy so we couldn't really hang out or ... (132 words)

I called him on what I thought was a lie, and now he's blocked me on Facebook

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw my boyfriend yesterday. We had sex with each other. I was only at his house for about four hours, He told me to go home earlier than I usually do. He said he was going to go shopping ( the supermarket closed a few hours later). He also asked me if I could give him his ... (493 words)

It feels like his family doesn't accept me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi anties and uncles. I just want to understand this part I'm dating this man for 7 years and we have just bought a house together, I found it so strange when it comes to my in-laws. It seems as if they don't love me for instance when I'm not at our house his family will come ... (109 words)

Why didn't my b/f introduce me to his friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I went to the beach and we were having a nice time until we were walking out of the water and he saw an old friend. He walked over to his friend and embraced him and I was walking over thinking he'd introduce me. He then grabbed his friend and walked away from ... (167 words)

Was she a virgin or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Maybe my question is stupid, bare with me. recently my gf and I were playing a game, something like truth or dare, I asked her with how many guys she has have sex with, she hesitated for a bit and she answered "only with you". when we had sex for the first time she bled a ... (274 words)

I am trying not to make my boyfriend choose between his mom and I but I really have to wonder about our future.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everybody! I have been dating my boyfriend (let's call him Mark) for almost three years now, and he is a wonderful person. He is always doing nice things for me, and he is so considerate. The issue is not him, but rather, his mother. In the beginning, she was alwa... (672 words)

why does he continue to keep doing this text and then leave thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had an on and off again with a guy for a few years now. Recently I ended it because he was being a jerk and I said we shouldn't talk anymore if that was how he was gonna be. He responded with bye. I thought it was done then the next day he wrote back saying how he knows... (123 words)

Moved in, now he doesn't know what he wants as the next step!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Aunts and Uncles: Moved in with boyfriend of 4 years: we love each other, we have a good relationship, we are both responsible, we see ourselves together for the long run. Problem: my guy has gone from being positive about the idea of marriage for himself, to totally silent a... (381 words)

Can I get Herpes from kissing my boyfriend doesn't have any blisters ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) age 36-40 - question about kissing and herpes. I recently started dating this guy he is very nice we has a kissing make out session we have only been on 3 dates so no further but now he tells me he has Genital Herpes. I told him that I was not going to sleep with him and he is ok with that ... (96 words)

I'm afraid friends may find out I was at this boy's house and think I'm a slut!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, thanks for answering my question, I really appreciate it :) Here's what happened. A month ago I met a guy and we talked on facebook ever since. We have two groups of friends and we went on a group outing together. After which, he asked me to go to church with him on a su... (179 words)

After the lying and the cheating on some level, should I cancel the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

24 June 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Am I reacting unreasonably in struggling to trust my partner? I became engaged to a man I had been dating for 6 months just over a year ago. In all honesty he is the type of man I have avoided all my life. In my eyes he is a womaniser and opportunist. However, I fell ... (1149 words)

How long will it take me to heal after the break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i was involved with a married woman to make a long story short she was a few years older and ive come to relise she used me in the 6 months we were together we broke up in april and i was a wreck shatterd you could say but me being me wanting her in my life still she gave me a ... (284 words)

My bf is still communicating with an ex even though we agree that he would not! HELP!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So the man I have a relationship with for he last two years had an affair in January. Technically we were on a break. He was out of town for a month and there were no promises made. However he kept the affair secret and when he came back took up with me again. I didn't find out ... (168 words)

How can I change the relationship with my mother? I need her but its complicated between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I stopped talking to my mum about 16 months ago, long story short, shes carried a lot of emotional baggage with her, since she split up with my dad over 20 years ago. She hasn't been with anyone since, and i am an only child, she has tried her hardest to brainwash me int... (585 words)

My friend is jealous of my pregnancy. This is the 2nd time its happened. How should I approach this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 12 weeks pregnant, It was planned and am very happy. The problem is my "friend". I had my first child in 2011 and when I told her (call her sue) she stopped talking to me. She was jealous as she had been trying with her partner since they got together, even though that had ... (287 words)

How best to end this friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Had a friend, known for 7 years. Freelance work, so understand that occasionally things crop up and she had to cancel arranged lunches, but it got to the point where it was almost constant. Used to spend long emails sorting out her problems (marriage breakdown, later a stalker, ... (632 words)

She broke my heart and she's expecting me to wish her a birthday message

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My ex- girlfriend that broke up our four year relationship would be celebrating her birthday in some days time. The fact is 4 months ago she broke up with me and recently she's been finding different means and tactics to get us talking, she started by sending SMS's th... (173 words)

Would it be alright to buy presents for the son of my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated a lady for 20 months, I got her with one child a son. Her son loved me a lot and now we broke up a month ago and pn the 30th pf june is this boy's birthday. What I will like to be help on is, can I buy this Boy some presents for his birthday or not as I am no longer ... (70 words)

New to "this dating scene" please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that at 27, i finally decide to get into the dating scene after feeling guilty about missing out by not having the college, dorm life, on top of having to deal with jerks usually dating girls that I like. Already girls don't care, and are like "your too old to go to ... (122 words)

Bf went to lunch with female coworker I am jealous of and another coworker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i just found out that my bf went out to eat with this girl A that I've always been jealous of and another male colleague 2yrs ago. during that time, i already told him and we agreed that he will not go out with A unless it is a work setting. girl A is his colleague and i've had ... (253 words)

We have been dating 8 years and never had sex because of pregnancy fears

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have never had intercourse. We are ready to, but we are freaked about getting pregnant because we have both always been so serious about attaining our high degrees in school. In high school it made sense and I felt great th... (273 words)

FWB...is am I in for a bad break?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a fwb relationship for 6 months. I knew within the fourth month, I had very deep feelings for him. I have voiced how I feel about him and even explained that he is my fantasy. He was just outta really bad breakup and new to my area. I was recently divorced. ... (224 words)

He watches porn every time we have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my man of 4 years watch porn every time we have sex? Is there anyone else experiencing the same thing?... (24 words)

How can I get romance in our relationship so that its better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for almost 6 months now. Things are going well but he doesn't do things that he used to and he's not one of the romantic types. He used to text me good morning, we used to text good night, he never talks to me about goals or anything, he used to ... (156 words)

How can I deal with an emotionally damaged "boyfriend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am 20, I met a guy in December. I was in his town and I met him through a friend, I then went back to my city a few days later, we have been speaking ever since, we started to like each other, we are now doing long distance, we're not officially boyfrien... (1310 words)

Okay for a model girlfriend to kiss another guy model for photo shoot???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend does allot of modeling and yesterday she told me that she might be in a photo shoot where she will have to kiss another guy model. I'll be honest and say I am very protective of her and I don't even like the idea of a guy touching her much less kissing her. She ... (131 words)

Can a relationship last if it has a rocky start???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in desperate need of advice on what to do with my current relationship as i'm not liking how it is going. It's somewhat long, but I wanted to be thorough. Thank you very much in advance for your help!! So my current girlfriend and I dated for about a year until final... (590 words)