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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend always puts his job before me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, so I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, his currently serving in the RAF so were semi long distance and only see one another weekends (mostly)the problem is I feel he always puts his job before me. Without sounding immature I truly understand and a... (184 words)

I pawned my ring from the guy I loved so why do I have mixed emotions over doing so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4204 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I was in a relationship for several years on and and off but the last time we broke it off and went back together.But this time he gave me a RING and this ring makes my heart melt but I moved away to another state and pawn it.Deep down inside I feel I did the wrong ... (149 words)

I can't take the way my mother treats me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age - sorry this is a bit long... I can't believe at my age I still get hurt from the way my own mother treats me. I am not holding any grudges towards her and I am not talking about the past, no, I am talking about the present. It surprises me that she "my mother", who suffer... (698 words)

Why would he ask me to be room mates and take trips with him if hes not single?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this friend named Ted, who I have gotten close with since December 2012. I used to like his friend, James, who I was pursuing a relationship with until I found out James was just playing games with me. Ted and I became friends when he was the first person to get ... (327 words)

My Dad refuses to be around my boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going to my cousin's 30th birthday party next week, but I can't take my boyfriend with me, as my dad is going to the party too, and he doesn't want to be around my boyfriend. My boyfriend used some bad language when he came to my dad's birthday party earlier this year with ... (203 words)

He says he loves me even though he cheated, got another woman pregnant and plan to marry her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy since march 2012. I was 20 and he was 33. He's from south america and was doing his masters. It was his last year here and after he's done with the masters he was supposed to leave. So we started this knowing we don't exactly have so much time. Someho... (1125 words)

Is my boyfriend not over his ex wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, 1 year living together. His ex wife (with whom he has 2 children) remarried 2 years ago and just had a baby. During the pregnancy he gave me updates on her health, the scans and on the day of the birth was practically not off his phone ... (123 words)

How do I make my ex my friend again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex (fiance) and I broke up after 14 months of dating, due to differences that she was over in the uk to study and ended up moving in with me for those 14 months. But then out of nowhere she wants to move back to WI, USA because that's where her family is from. Now I'm 22 ... (611 words)

Age differences: what's ok and what's not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm attracted to a 19 year old guy... but I'm 22. While the age difference isn't that big, I feel like this is the time in your life where you are maturing fast and growing up. He just graduated high school last year while I've been out for 4 years and A LOT has changed in t... (206 words)

Curious about my wife's sexual past

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together 9 years, and had the whole "how many people have you ******" conversation many years ago. Ever since then, I, like many husbands, still wonder "is that her real number, or is she holding some back?" The history she gave me was active, but what ... (400 words)

Does he like me? Should I make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - OK this is something I never thought I would need to do. But I am so confused right now and need some honest answers. About 3 years ago I started a new job and since my first day I've got on really well with my office manager. We email a lot about everything (some... (446 words)

Can cousins be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - this isnt really a problem.. but you know. i just wanted to ask if.. erm. is it okay for cousins to like each other? i mean not only liking as a cousin but actually something deeper than that. ive been thinking about this situation for nights since we went out that day, with my ... (164 words)

What is love really meant to feel like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for just over 6 months. This is my first relationship and basically I had no experience prior. In the first few weeks I felt like I was in love, but I thought that it was probably an infatuation and because she's my first, so I held back. But ... (496 words)

This man has left me wondering if i'll ever have a proper relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 39, beautiful and never have had a boyfriend. I had a very special relationship for 7 years with a man who was the most amazing man when we would spend time together. When we weren't together, he was being the most amazing man to another. Then it ended horrifically and ... (223 words)

We had to finish our secret relationship but now I'm heartbroken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year and a half. He's 19 and I'm 19 next month. But have kept it secret for the whole time as my parents knew about my last boyfriend and made me split up with him. We was under so many restrictions and we have gone ... (312 words)

How to cope when you know what he was like in the past??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm just wondering on everyone's take on this situation. My other half have been together a year and a half.... we stay together every night and are pretty settled now which is lovely... I'd known him for a few years beforehand with no sexual attraction to him... (916 words)

He has put a stop to sex before marriage. How should I take this when we had a great sex life anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, my boyfriend of 1 year and i have a really healthy sex life, and even though he is the only man i've ever slept with, i never felt like i need to try a second flavor or anything. On the other hand, after a chat last night with my boyfriend, i knew that once he had... (233 words)

I'm stuck in a rut and need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here we go again. Next holiday new problem. After what happened with the mothers day present and my ex buying me jewelry he now thinks I should have to get him something for fathers day. I do not believe I have to. I am not working and I repeatedly told him to not get me ... (270 words)

Can anyone tell me what's going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been "going out" with this girl who I really really like for the past 2 months. We get along great, whenever we are together we have a really nice time. She texts me A LOT, but mostly random stuff. Thing is, aside from that, she doesn't display a lot of interes... (295 words)

Is he worth my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with someone for over three years. He has more than enough luggage with him that he carries, but all his family are deceased. I am going through a divorce now after knowing this person for three years. He knows all about it and has always said he would be there ... (1272 words)