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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I gave a promise ring to a woman that I haven't heard from her for 2 months before that we were seeing each other at least twice a week for three months. And but now i have been dating other women during that time cause we didn't talk for two months and then she texts me a couple of weeks ago saying she wants to get me a promises ring and then she tells me her monday was messed up bad. This whole thing is confusing me. She has twins. She is a mother of two. When she tries to make plans to see me after not seeing me for two months and then it all falls through every time. She said she is going to buy me a promise ring when she see me but i haven't heard from for a couple of weeks since it fell through. I just cant wait around its stupid. It is like she wasting my time. Why is she doing this. She said promises to marry me someday but it seems like that she isn't doing her part. Her kids ar out of school now but then she forgets about her boyfriend. And her kids have summer programs I'm so frustrated right now.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (30 June 2013):
Congratulations, you just discovered why promise rings are stupid.
Don't bother with "why" she's doing this, just recognize that the two of you are on a completely different page. Find someone who is more in tune with you and your needs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2013): it is definitely very frustrating when you are left in limbo in a relationship and you have no idea what's going on !! This is not acceptable, however have you tried to call her or text her, maybe emailed her during the two months of not hearing from her? I am sure you did.Is your relationship a long distance relationship? when she talked to you after 2 months of no communication, did she tell you the reason for her disappearance? you can't go on like this waiting God knows for how long, but you need to talk to her urgently*** and tell her how you feel, then you can move on and start dating other women, but talk to her first and don't do like her, you might want to get back the promise ring you gave her. Good Luck and all the best.
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