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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Friends say he just wants sex but he told me he won't mistreat me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy I have been talking to who I met through my friend for about 5 months, he's really nice and a gent at times, however yesterday me and my friend were talking and he came up in conversation and she said not to go for him (as in date) as he's an idiot and he just ... (123 words)

Who first? My Depressed Suicidal Girlfriend or My Career that havent even started yet!!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Firstly, thanks for reading. Secondly, I'm lesbian, just in case....I know for some its an abomination. For those of u who reads this and actually help me out I will be forever in your debt. Okay I'm in a relationship with a beautiful woman. She's very smart, funny, an... (608 words)

I'd rather date an older guy than someone my own age, but do I have no chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at university, turned 19 a few months ago, and won't graduate for a few more years but I just find guys like that irresistibly more attractive even though I know most of them will probably be looking for girls around their age. I don't like those in their 30s or older, ... (319 words)

I'm hurting, in our 3 years he's cheated on me more than 5 times! How to prevent him from cheating again?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - im currently in a relationship of 3 years and since we have been together my boy friend has cheated on me more than 5 time, and he just repeated now so I just don't know what to do! and he keeps on saying he loves me when I dump him... so how do I deal with this problem? what ... (67 words)

She's not talking to me since I called her out for seeing a married man! I did it because it was unfair for her to put me on 'hold'!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl that i like and i thought she liked me are not talking right now over a silly argument. It turns out the argument was an excuse to put me on "punishment" because i found out she is seeing a married man with a child. the child and wife dont live with the man. but he l... (311 words)

Why do I feel guilty about ignoring him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in love with a guy for over two years but he only really wanted sex and the odd date here and there. I knew this deep down but I went along with it because I thought I might be the one person who actually could change a person. I guess the reason I thought this (apart ... (492 words)

Do I really sound like the failure my father-in-law makes me out to be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

2 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - my relation ship with my wife of 10 years is really on rocks due to her parents (specially her fathers) unnecessary interference in to our family life. She is too attached to her parents and the old man just keep taking total advantage of the situation to control my life ... (257 words)

Does this sound like my boyfriend was molested by his dad?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend was molested as a child. The even crazier thing is I suspect it was by his own parents. The first time I thought something was weird was because he told me he knew about sexual acts at a very pre mature age. He said when he was young he used to insert ... (695 words)

Thinks are awkward since I rejected one of the guys in our group

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this group of friends who I sometimes hang out with. And to my dismay,a guy from this group of friends confessed to me and I rejected him. Now I feel very uncomfortable and awkward seeing him. The problem is he still keeps initiating group meets up. I really don't feel ... (73 words)

Should I tell him I'm soon to be single or leave the situation as it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is my dilemma. There is a guy I have liked for many years until a year ago we worked together and although we never met up outside of work we do touch based by texting every couple of months. We texted a couple of days ago and I asked if he'd like to meet for coffee as I ... (167 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to talk about what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3843 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a hard time getting my boyfriend to talk to me about things-especially in terms of the future. i am divorced and he had been engaged in the past. i never used to think i would want to get married but being with him has changed that-i know in my heart that he is the ... (137 words)

We don't have enough time for me to reach orgasm. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, my boy friend of one year doesn't have the enough time to give me orgasm, we have sex at his parents house, and they rarely leave now, so when they are out we have a quick one where he reaches orgasm and i am stocked wanting more but i don't and i feel so upset ... (136 words)

How can I keep all of us friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4187 days ago

2 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - so I like this girl "J" and i really like her we're good friends and we talk quite a bit i told her i liked her and she said she didnt want to ruin what we have and i want the same as it would ruin alot of things between us as shes my friends twin sister. my friend knows about ... (288 words)

My husband spent the night at his "friend's" place when he said he'd be playing pool

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my BF for 3 years this upcoming month. Together, we've been quite anti-social over the course of our relationship save for a couple of friends. Recently, he's been speaking to a new girl in the town we've just moved too. Now, I don't really care who he spea... (322 words)

Should I ask her if she wants to meet up? Or are my friends are right, that I should leave it and not bother contacting her since it's been too long ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl who I used to really like and we both liked each other last summer, but I was seeing someone and there was other complications that happened and because of it, I wouldn't say we left things with us on the best terms. I tried to sort it out and make the situ... (377 words)

The first guy knew the other guy. Did I do the right thing by telling the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went out with this guy on a date, and go figure one of co-workers and I slept together, before even started talking with the guy I went on the date on. He asked me if I knew him since he had seen we were friends on facebook and I told him the truth. That it was a one-nig... (148 words)

How do you know whether to keep trying in a relationship, or to just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20, have been with my boyfriend (25) for 2 years. He is very loyal, affectionate, loving and absolutely adores me. For the past 6 months he just irrates me constantly. He's not very intelligent, lives with his parents, works in a factory (no ambition/money) and can ... (160 words)

Am I over reacting, not getting ANYTHING for mother's day?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the mother of two small children, four and two and this year for mother's day I didn't get anything from anyone. No one in my family and my bf of four years, the father of my children, didn't get me anything either. No card, no flowers, absolutely nothing. He said he ... (97 words)

How do I get this guy back to his warm usual self?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, need help understanding the male psychology a bit please. There is a guy I met at the pub (35), he was going through divorce and my case is the same. We connected, in his words he was very intrigued by my story and he found me very attractive. We ended up sleeping together ... (214 words)

My muslim boyfriend's family have picked out a girl for him, they don't know about me. Will he man up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female British white person i been with my Muslim boyfriend for 3 years. i very friendly with his auntie and uncle who he lives with. He loves me and i love him however things have come ahead and apparently they don't know that we are seeing each other. The auntie s... (430 words)

My friend dropped me...and now is trying to get back in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Three years ago when my former best friend got engaged, she dropped me like I was nothing. Now, everything has turned around for me and she's reared her ugly head trying to be friends with me again. How would you handle this? For some background, we were friends since co... (334 words)

She told me she loves me...but should this stay as just friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

2 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hey I havent been on in a long time and I need some advice... Ok so I just got out of technical training for the air force I came home to hang out with family and friends and one of my closest female friends tells me after I leave her house for the last time that she loves me ... (132 words)

Why the different reactions from guys on different nights?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Question for men. Do you guys feel a certain vibe coming from women when they are welcoming and ready for some action? The reason why I am asking this because recently I became single again, and I go out a lot. Some nites guys one after another talk to me, call me beatiful... (235 words)

She seems to be getting less sexual over time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts :) So, I'm having a sex issue. My girlfriend and I have been together for 13 months, she lives 4 hours away. We've met twice, and have had sex. In the beginning of our relationship, my girlfriend was very...sexual. She talked about sex often and we sexted a lot. ... (244 words)