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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Music is my life, but I hate being in a band with these guys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunts, This isn't a romantic relationship question, but I hope you can help me. I'm really torn up and upset about this. well, it's that I play the guitar in a band. Music has been my absolute life for a long time and I always LONGED to play in a band, and that drea... (1376 words)

Is she just waiting for me to make a move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So this is probably going to make me sound pretty pathetic but it's been on my mind all day. I guess I've got a crush on a girl I work with and would be open to the idea of dating her, I just haven't figured out how exactly to bring it up yet and I've just been building up... (167 words)

Fiance wanted a break, he's talking to another woman about but isn't trying to fix things. What does he want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wonder if anyone can help - five weeks ago my fiance and partner of three years, who I lived with along with his little girl, told me that he was unsure of his feelings for me and we should have a break. I was devastated - we only got engaged at New Year and he seeme... (834 words)

Do I tell my husband straight out that I want out of the marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age - I´m married for 10 years now and since 2 years ago my mother got really sick and I started to go to my country for some time.Last year I went for 3 months and when I went back to USA my husband was diferente,much loosed.Later on some of his friends started asking me that he was ... (413 words)

B/f doesn't think its a big deal to have a kid with another woman. It bothers me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17, 2nd year college, while my boyfriend is 26, already a professional. i met him at school when he was tasked to be the substitute teacher for our class since our teacher is still on leave. he handled the class very good that he draws all our attentions into him. the ... (784 words)

Am I using him? Am I worthless?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to know if I am out of line. My husband and I have been married for 6 years now he has three kids and I have three . We only have four of the kids living with us because his two older children are adults. I work four months of the year during tax season and I... (287 words)

Just started talking, then nothing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Utterly confused and hoping someone could please shed some light! Been flirting with a guy that works in a store I shop in once a week. Really felt a lot of tension between us, definitely a connection. Two days ago we spoke for quite a while. He complimented me and then said... (289 words)

Is it appropriate to give the mother an anniversary gift?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a quick question having more to do with etiquette. I've been exclusively dating a guy for a couple of months and we've hit it off extraordinarily well, so we are pretty serious about each other. We're in our late twenties and his parents are having a milestone ... (179 words)

Ideas for fun first dates?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

21 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - You have probably read my other questions recently about my online potentials! Well, I've been talking to this girl recently who sounds really nice, and guess what, she asked me when we are going to meet up! I have been out with younger women before, but the age differen... (78 words)

Is my current relationship worth it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a relationship of 2 years that generally, i'm content with. i have never had many girlfriends and most of my close friends have always been guys. i do consider myself a tomboy so when a guy hits on me, i'm pretty flattered. my current boyfriend is a bit older and just ... (410 words)

Boyfriend can't make me cum so I took care of myself but he woke up and caught me and is angry!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles Bf and me have an ok sex life... he gets it anytime he wants, but since he works so many hours I do not initiate(I pounce on his days off) and let him rest during the work days. i never cum unless I touch myself, but he has never made me cum with on... (422 words)

Should I give this relationship more time or just walk away now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I give this relationship more time or just walk away now? I am 31, a single parent, rent a house of my own and work 5 days a week. My bf is 29, lives with his parents and works part time. We been dating for almost 2 years. Things started off well, however there has been... (420 words)

I want my ex back but need to know how he feels he has a g/f!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! So I'm a bit confused. I am still interested in my ex boyfriend. Every new guy that I meet reminds me how much I want my ex. Recently I met up with my ex for dinner. It was nice to see him. We talked a lot- about random things and about what happened with our relation... (201 words)

Boyfriend wants a threesome. How do I handle this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and have a great, caring, passionate relationship together. We often go out on a date night, go to our friends parties, etc together. Although neither of us are eachother's first long-term relationship, my boyfriend lost h... (301 words)

I need advise about how to handle a co-worker and don't want to go running to my unhelpful boss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age - Not sure if this forum helps with work issues also but, need some advice on how to handle a situation I am in at my place of employment. I am a site supervisor of a Before and After School Program for a non-profit organization. I provide structured child care at an eleme... (528 words)

He gave me his cell phone number--is he interested? I don't want to misinterpret his actions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Some guy(I see him barely once in a WHILE and just say hi to) recently chatted with me a bit more about himself and just as he was about to leave gave me his business card offering his services but he also says he wrote his cell number just if I want to call him. What should I ... (99 words)

I worry that I will be the one taking care of his money issues if I stay with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys so i really need yalls help! so i love my boyfriend more than anything in the world.(first off let me say that i dont know how old it says i am on here since i havent been logging in for a long time but im 19 now and my bf is 20)so anyways i truly want to spend the ... (248 words)

Is he really over me, even though he's had this girlfriend for over a year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm looking for some advice regarding my ex. My ex and I dated for 4 years, and he broke up with me 2 years ago. It was sort of mutual, as we argued about little things quite often. We had a lot of differences in our interests (he liked sports, country music, etc, whil... (551 words)

Is it bad that I've never had a kiss or relationship at 16?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - is it bad that im 16 and still haven't my first kiss, or better yet a realationship at all? I feel like im the only one at school that hasn't even had a guy that has said anything nice to me yet. :(... (43 words)

Why would an ex delete you completely from their life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Why would an ex delete you completely from his / her life? Especially when you did nothing wrong to them and you did not hurt them in any way.... (30 words)

Why would he not call me but have his friend call me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - so i hung out with this guy that i really like, last week and just recently he hasnt been responding to my txts...the last time i texted him was monday, i asked how his day was going, he responded that it was frustrating, i asked why and he hasnt responded...well yesterday i ... (107 words)

Should we start sleeping in separate beds till he get a new job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years has been waiting for his promotion for 2 years and he didnt get it this year too, even though his juniors got it. He was so disappointed, planning to quit his job and try job in a new company. I support his decision. Problem is he stopped sle... (124 words)

How can I make friends, even find a girlfriend, my age that meets my expectations and I can have fun with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4164 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My name is Carleigh. I'm 15 going on 16 in about ten days, and I'm a sophomore. I'm very mature, smart, funny, and honest. I'm a lesbian. I love literature, the English language, art, theatre, Shakespeare, learning, school, food, music, health and fitness, makeup, Pinterest, ... (647 words)

Why couldn't he show me some respect instead of leading me on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't mean to be angry/bitter but I was dating this guy for four months, the first two months we were not doing anything physical we would just hang out, go to the movies, have fun then after the second month we slept together, after we slept together I had the talk wit... (1233 words)