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writes:I met this girl online as I moved and didn't know anyone in the area. we got chatting and got to know each other really well and we have very similar interests in music, art etc. she's 17 and I'm 19 so I don't see anything wrong plus she turns 18 before I turn 20. we met once where I met some of her guy friends and they're all really nice and we all got on. I met her again last night with more of her friends and it was such a great night she asked if I wanted to go swimming today but I couldn't as I was going to my mums. I liked her a little before yesturday but yesturday I was stunned she looked so beautiful and I just wanted to hold her hand, hug and kiss her.she is a little difficult to work out but I don't think she likes me in that way but I don't know. she sent me a text about us meeting up last night and put a smiley face and two x's and she texted me saying I should text to let me know i'm home safe I don't think that means anything.Should I tell her that I like her, or should I ask her out? what should I do? all I want to do is hang around her
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reader, tykeavenger24 +, writes (11 November 2012):
tykeavenger24 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just found out that a guy she's friends with likes her and she knows i don't know how long for or if she feels the same i don't know if this changes anything from what i've said etc
ps i only met this guy once last night
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reader, bluewarrior911  +, writes (11 November 2012):
 If you like her, I think you should just ask her out. If at all possible, use non-verbal cues to suggest your interest in her - at least in the beginning. There are many ways to do this. Use the ones that fit your persona and most of all....be yourself. If she's a girl...she will know. They are very intuitive. Be mysterious, but yet charming. There will be a time where you can verbalize that you like her, but I think "now" would be too soon. Wait about 90 days. In fact, let her ask you first whether you like her. If she does ask you "Do you like me?" just say..."sometimes" or "not all the time". Be cocky, but a gentleman. And for God's Sake never ask a girl "Well, what do you think of me?" or "Do you like me?" A Real Man does NOT do this. And, if you ever get cold feet or fear what she will say always remember this quote:"The LOVE you withhold, is the PAIN you will carry"In other words, damn if you do and damn if you don't. Either way you are screwed, so just ask her out.Hope this helps.
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