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writes:There is a guy at work I used to work with before I transitioned into another unit; new number, new room, etc. We met each other in person twice and talked on the phone a few times, exchaged emails on business related issues. However, I always sensed there was passion between us when we shook hands and looked into each others eyes, but it was indiscreet. After several months, I get a voicemail from him and I was shocked because he got my new number. He said" Hi, I have a quick question and was wondering if you would give me a call back, I would appreciate it. Ok. Thanks. Bye." I called him back and left a voicemail 20 minute later to return my call. He called back a hour later and said that the issue is resolved and thanked me for returning his call. I was surprised the issue was resolved so quickly if he needed my help. I asked how he was and he responded he was fine and when I talked he would pause. When I ended the call and said "Take it easy" he sounded faint like he wanted to say something but hestitated. My impression was that he called to see how I was doing and is using work as a cover. I dunno. If it seems that way, and he wants me the make the next move, I want to because I have a lot of feeligs for him.Do you agree? Did he call for other reasons and should I pursue this?
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reader, Staceily  +, writes (12 November 2012):
 To be honest it sounds like you are reading way too much into it and it was a very simple call. Because you like him you are taking everything he does as some hint he feels deeply for you too. I'm not saying it isn't possible he does, but by this conversation and your other instances you mention it sounds like a normal work relationship. When a guy really wants you he makes it happen. But if you like him that much and feel comfortable with it why not ask him out for drinks sometime or a bite to eat? Find out how he really feels so you can stop being in limbo and over reading everything he does.
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