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female
age
30-35,
*omeoneLikeYou
writes:Hi.I'm in love with one of my guy friends for a few months now and i know it's not good. I think maybe he loves me too, because sometimes it feels like that and we can really have great times, but it just isn't right. Still i become so much jealous when he talks to another friend or smiles at her..It's sort of a unrequited love..I really would love it to be lovers, but it is not possible for many reasons.The fear of losing a great friend.The weirdness it will bring in our group of friends.Our parents who would nog approve...I'm lost.. How can i forget about him?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (12 November 2012):
 There is really a lot of detail missing from your submittal....and it makes me ask this question, of you:
IF you and this guy cannot be lovers, why can't you be "just friends?" IF you and he travel in the same circle, and - consequently - have many common interests, then what's wrong with seeing/spending time with one-another without the crunch of being "lovers?"
Who knows.... if you and he continue a "friendship"... and details allow it in the future... perhaps you and he COULD be closer .....
I don't see friendship-vs-lovership as an "either/or" situation....
More info, please...
Good luck...
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