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anonymous
writes:I have been sex buddys with a guy i dated since high school for about 19 years. We quit for a time cuz both of us were married to other people. When the divorces came in we both started to have a sex buddy relationship again. Recently he told me a secret that he likes to do in the bedroom that he saud he has never told anyone else in his life. And he starts to open up to me about things as well. Is he wanting more or am i reading into this all wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2012): You're reading into it too much.
1) He's known you for 19 years so why wouldn't he be comfortable around you.
2) People say all kinds of crazy BS either when they are trying to get sex or right after.
Since the two of you are in your thirties and have had plenty of life experiences, I would think at this point the two of can be honest about what it is you want and need.
Best wishes.
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