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female
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30-35,
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writes:For convenience, I will call the guy T and the friend G.There is this guy called T who goes to my uni and we are both in the same year and on the same course. We got to know each other at the beginning of October through a party, nothing happened we just spoke. We have mutual friends so we started going out a few times in the same group, yet again nothing happened.A couple of weeks later, we both happened to be in the same club (not planned!) he came up to me and took me away from my friends we then got off, and had a good chat on the sofa. I think he wanted sex afterwards but my friend was staying over so it was not convenient and also I do have morals. We texted practically each day afterwards, it was on the flirtatious side.Then, we all went out for Halloween but in our separate friendship circles. I saw him flirting with some fat, really ugly blonde girl who I had been told by other friends that she's a massive bitch. So I went over to him and confronted him at why he is hanging around with her, and he admitted that he didn't like her in that way and I quote "to be honest, I like you quite a bit.." after this I was naturally very embarrassed but we talked things over and he told me to forget about it as he has etc. He then brought me a drink and we got off again on the dancefloor. Yet again, I think he wanted sex but this time I was staying at my friends house and we both had a 8am lecture, hence why I couldn't sleep with him and also I do have morals and literally didn't want him thinking I was easy..So, this time we didn't text until about 5 days later, and I started the texts this time. Since then we have basically been texting everyday. We went to pre-drinks together this Friday but I had to leave early so I could get into the club, while I was at the club he asked how the night was going, in general it was a rubbish night so I decided to admit this. He said I should have stayed longer as we hardly spoke during pre-drinks. I quote from him: "I hate how we hardly spoke earlier"..My friend G is trying to me off him, as I think she is making stuff up that he is not interested and only wants one thing, and she is trying to stir it. She's just stopped seeing this guy and to put it simply shes not happy about it. So is she jealous of me and T? Or is she being a good friend..? Im inclined to not listen to her and just go with my instincts.So the thing is, he hasn't asked me out on a date, and despite me hinting nothing is happening, so what should I do? In simple terms, do you think he is interested?Thank you so much in advance, really appreciate the advice!!
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reader, bluewarrior911  +, writes (11 November 2012):
 Honestly...I think he only wants to get into your pants. I hope I'm wrong, but it sure sounds like it. All I can say is to use your intuition and I have a feeling that you already know the answer. Most men of this caliber will treat you like shit after they get what they want. And, for the most part, what they "want" is not what you need. On a lighter side, I admire your morals.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2012): She's being a good friend. The guy knows you are after him and all he wants is sex.
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