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writes:A close friend of mine introduced me to one of her friends around December last year, and at the time I liked her and thought she was quite pretty and she had an awesome personality and I got talking to her and got to know her and she is a fantastic person, but I can't bring myself to meet her and possibly make more of our relationship, lArgely because I can't remember what she looks like and I'm scared there won't be any physical attraction and I'd lose someone who could easily become very close to me. I've looked at her pictures on Facebook and stuff and she's not the way I remember her, I dunno what to do and I know my problem sounds very vain but I just need some help.
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (9 March 2012):
 If you like her, do it man. If not, then dont.
Simply put, if you want to give her a chance, then go right ahead, if not, then just dont meet her.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 March 2012):
 It sounds like you are more scared about things working out than everything falling to bits.
You haven't asked her to marry you. You aren't picking out china and flatware. You've just said to a friend that you thought she was pretty and has a fantastic personality. Your feet will not be held to the fire. You will not be tortured and you will not be forced to enter a relationship with this fantastic person.
Just relax and meet her again. It doesn't make you a bad person if the sparks aren't there.
Actually, you know what? Don't meet her again. Instead, I would like for you to think about what is scaring you so much and get back to us here with a theory on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2012): Just go. You have nothing to lose.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2012): I've had a similair situation happen to me! I would meet her. If she's not as fun or attractive as she used to be, then you don't have to talk to her as much. Just meet her so you don't regret it for the rest of your life!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 March 2012):
 Obviously the sparks weren't flying back in December if you are dragging your feet in March to re-meet her.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 March 2012):
 I don't know why, but if I see a hot woman I always remember what she looks like. I wonder how it is that you can't remember what she looks like, particularly if you've looked at her pictures on Facebook.
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