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36-40,
*irman
writes:Hey guys I have a quick question, mostly for the feminine gender here :PSo there is this girl I like and we kinda text chat on our phones. Its been just a week since we started this. N mostly its me initiating it. But when it starts it goes for an hr or more and its fun and there are alot of lols in her replies. But then the next day, she doesnt text, i mean there is no initiation from her. It has to be me.But sometimes if she doesnt reply she texts later giving a reason like her battery died or she fell asleep etc.What I want to know is, should i be the one initiating it, i mean for some reason I feel maybe she doesnt like me as I think coz she never starts a convo. But when it starts I feel maybe she likes talking to me.I m a bit confused. Some insight would be helpful
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2012): I've got the same problem, only it's me who initiates conversation, never him but he somewhat like to chat with me. So...I don't know. Think of leaving him alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2012): This early in a relationship, some woman think its the man's right/duty/job/tradition to do the chasing. It is actually considered 'lady-like' by some. She may not want to waste her time on someone that isn't really keen.... I wouldn't initiate a text this early on.... I am old fashioned and believe it's the man's job. I want to be treated like a lady.... and want a man that will treat me that way.... in return I will treat him with love respect appreciation....
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reader, virman +, writes (8 March 2012):
virman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe is actually a junior in a college i went to, so thats how we know each other. I mean she knows about me alot and I kinda too. But it was just a week back we actually started to text
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 March 2012):
 “it’s been just a week”
“we kind of text chat on our phones”
IT’s very early on in this friendship and to be honest just texting (how did you come to text her… in other words how do you know her?) is not much of a foundation to make assumptions on.
IF you think you want to be more than just casual texting buddies (cause that’s all it is right now) then pick up the phone and call her and ask her on a date…
Many times women are taught to let the man come to them… and this early on that may be what she is doing.
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