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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I’ve been hanging out with one of my guy friends a lot for the last couple of months (I’ve known him since November-ish). We get along really well and I enjoy his company very much. Sometimes we do kind of nutty stuff together – we once had a staring contest for 3 hours, our friends thought we were crazy. I guess we’re both kind of odd, and we communicate a little oddly, but it works for us. We have a million little weird inside jokes. Most weekends we end up staying up all night, sometimes with other people and sometimes just us, doing nothing, just talking. We talk over Facebook a lot too and somehow it seems like we always end up in the same place at the same time.He doesn’t seem to mind at all when I touch him – I play with his hair, draw on his hands (and he draws on mine – yes we are silly), prop my legs on him, we play-fight over things one of us took from the other, things like that. The “touch barrier” was pretty much obliterated a long time ago. We also do long goodbye hugs. He doesn’t initiate a whole lot of the touching; he seems kind of awkward and smiley and uncertain about it sometimes, but he doesn’t object in the slightest or move away when I start. I did kiss him on the cheek one time but it was after we’d been up all night and were both silly-tired, and I left right away so didn’t see if or how he reacted. It’s never come up again afterwards though.So yeah. I’m into him and he has to know. Our friends all know – they ask if we’re dating or tease us about being a “couple” and he never denies it. I think he might be into me as well – if he’s not, I have no idea why he spends so much time with me and lets me be all over him. :) And I don’t know why we haven’t kissed yet… Given what I’ve described above, do you think I would be okay to just take things into my own hands and kiss him?
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reader, thebaldsoprano +, writes (9 March 2012):
You're way past the "foreplay" stage. Just kiss him already.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 March 2012):
 what the heck why not.... and do let us know how it works out...
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reader, iloveandysixx!  +, writes (9 March 2012):
 Of course! What could go wrong? You two obviously like eachother! Lol
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 March 2012):
 Me being a little devil, all I can say is
HELL, YEAH!
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