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writes:I am a 20 year old girl and im very confused! I havent had a long term bf in about a year or so. Any thing since that was just dating. But now, i want a relationship. Ive being seen a friend of a friend for the past 2 months. Im not sure if what he wants is the same as me. We meet up, chat, have fun, go to the cinema and the likes but we dont talk about what we both want! also, sometimes i think he just wants me for the sex. Because, if im not in the mood for it he doesnt seem to be himself. Im not sure what to do. I like him, but dont know how to approach him about it, sex isnt everything is it?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 March 2012):
 In a true relationship that's based on love, mutual respect and goals, no sex isn't everything. In a long term relationship at least for me day to day stuff gets in the way of sex and a couple can go weeks without sex (not without contact like affection but just no genital play)
if all you do when you meet up is have sex then the only way to know is to stop having sex... if you stop and he whines about it then you can initiate 'the talk"... but if it's just about sex he may just disappear when the sex dries up.
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reader, mum2two +, writes (9 March 2012):
Like sageoldguy says to a man sex is everything, the best thing to do is get to know him a little better and when you to are more in a comfortable place in your relationship sit down w/ each other and disgust where you to are in the relationship.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (8 March 2012):
 For a guy, s*x IS everything.....
But, it's worth it, if you wish, to learn more about this guy and find out if he is one of those few who actually likes women for other than s*x.....
Good luck.....
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