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writes:okay my boyfriend and i have been dating 16 months we have a 7 month old baby. the whole time we have been together i have only gotten to hang out with his friends a total of 7 times. everytime i ask him if i can go with him he says no because everytime i have been around them i don't talk i don't laugh at anything and i just look unhappy. which is not true. i am super shy and i wont talk to anyone unless they talk to me first. when i am with his friends i have fun. i have told him that but he still says no. i broke up with him like a hour ago. because of this.. i was suppose to go on a trip with him his friend and his friends girlfriend on saturday to knoxville, tennessee did i break up with him over a stupid reason? or was it the right thing to do
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 March 2012):
 I think you need to listen to that gut of your more often, YES you did the right thing.
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reader, Sinful_thinker89 +, writes (8 March 2012):
 Not a good reason at all. Guys need their time alone.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 March 2012):
 the fact that you feel like you have to have his permission to hang out with friends is very telling...
you don't need his permission. if you want to do something you do it.
if he thinks he can control you then yes I think ending the relationship was wise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2012): He is an abusive, controlling jerk. You broke up with him because you instinctively know you deserve better than he is capable of giving you, treating you.
Leave him for good. Seek a local single Moms group, get individual counselling. Get stronger, wiser and with it, you'll better be able to find and date worthy men of your love.
Call a local support groups ASAP. Gather friends around you in your time of need and trusted family to help get over this creep.
Stay Strong!
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