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writes:Hi im 20 and my bf is 29...he is a good man very humble funny family oriented and jus a no worry person and god fearing. Weve been talkin for 6 m mths and we jus started talkin in aug...so the holidays were around the corner and his family is known for throwing big gatherings and for thanksgiving they had one and I wasnt invited...it hurt my feelings but I jus assumed he didmt want me to meet his family yet...so I christmas came he said he didnt want anything and he asked me wat I wanted and I told him to surprise me and he got me nothing....and christmas eve he was with a ”female fri ed nd” tht I found out abt mths later after I had to catch him in a lie....valentines day came around and there was nothin..I spent it with one of.single friends and he told me he doesn't like the holidays and going all over the top. And I jus dnt kno wat should I do because he has a great job and hes a.nice person it jus seems.like I continue to come last evn though he claims im so important and everytime I call him on his bs he jus finds a way to weasel out of it and make me feel like ill miss somethin if I really left or things will get.better he,promises me dates and doing things together tht never happens but as soon as his friends call he goes running..im jus sick of it I dnt wamna loose him over materialistic things but I jus wanna.know.if he would go the extra mile for me and try to sweep me off my feet instead.of making promises he camt and keeping me.around when nothings going to change....and recently we dnt evn stay together its,like 45 mins no longer than 1 30 min.and I leave..but he claims hes happy but it jus.seems he hears me but hes not listening...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 March 2012):
 To me it sounds like you are not happy in this relationship, and if I am honest and it was me then I would be the same. He seems to put everyone else in front of you and you are a last resort. To be honest if I was in this position I wouldn't put up with it, he can't keep his promises, it shows that he is not really serious about you at all. To be honest if it was me I would tell him it was over until he can prove he is worthy of you.
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