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30-35,
*pendy
writes:I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought we were in love but he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship.A year later, he gets in touch. He asks for me back says he regrets everything that happened.We spent a night together, but I'm not happy I feel like he only wants me cause he's lonely and his heart is not really in it. I spoke to an older friend of mine and she says I should dump him cause he's using me.What should I do? I love him but I'm not sure he loves me. He says this time it'll be different.Is he using me? How should I end it?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (21 March 2012):
 Your friend knows more than I do. I don't know what you did last night. You know what really makes a person move on. It's knowing that the other person also moved on too. I believe you couldn't move on because you are sensing his need for you. If he is in a stable relationship right now, do you think you would still be thinking and talking about him? It's up to you if you want to dump him later or never. Tell him what your future plans are and see if he can fit into yours. Emphasize to him that a relationship is boring, high maintenance, it has lots of responsibilities, why does he suddenly want one now? You are not going to be happy until you hear him and are convinced by him. There will be a lot of pent up anger for what he did to you.
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reader, shazz1991xoxo +, writes (21 March 2012):
 I was in the same situation as you, he used to call me when he was lonely and i fell for it every time, it took me a while to realise what he was like it was hard but i got over it, if u really want to be with him try not sleeping together for a few months to see if he will stick by you like have a fresh start and don't rush into things xoxo good luck
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