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writes:Hello all,I have been seeing my BF for over a year now, but am not seeing him enough, I have discussed this with him many times. but nothing changes. He calls me, and stuff, but we only see each other once a week sometimes twice, but not very often, I am now sick of saying it and have backed right off, and since I have done so, he has become more loving and attentive, but is stil making no moves to see me more, and what hurts the most is that he lives round the corner from me. He spends alot of time on his own watching the football, or the news, but not with me. What can I do about this sitution? Back off even more or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok guys and girls. I.ve ended it,and feel so much better! thanx for taking the time to answer me. X
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reader, shazz1991xoxo +, writes (21 March 2012):
 hmm something doesn't seem right if he lives around the corner and u only see him onced a week? my ex lived around the corner and we saw each other every day even if just for a hug or a kiss for 5 mins then we spent time with our own friends, seeing eaach other too much isn't healthy but neither is seeing each other too little, if you are having sex with him it sounds as if hes just using you for a booty call, i would back off a lot more or just ask him straight out why he doesn't want to see u more often xoxo good luck
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 March 2012):
 Agreed that if you are having sex when you see him it's about the sex....
When I was LDR (by 2 hours) we did everything we could (including a 2-3 hour commute twice a week) to be together... we hated even 3 nights apart...
if you back off he will escalate but not for the right reasons...
if you have discussed this and nothing changes, then it is what it is... and you have to accept it or end it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2012): If your having sex, that is all he is interested in. And this is not a boyfriend, for over a year you have been his booty call, a very handy one too as he only has to pop round the corner to see you.
(If your not having sex, then he is merely a mate, nothing more.)
Don't pull back, just end it.
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