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writes:I'm 20, I've been together with my boyfriend who is 21 for 2 months now and we have done pretty much everything in bed except full sex. He told me at the beginning that he has only had sex with one person (his ex girlfriend who he was with for 3 and a half years) and that's fine, I believe him and everything and it reassures me he's not some kind of man slag. The thing is though, I'm a virgin and I don't know how to tell him! Before anyone says anything about me being not ready for sex or anything, believe me, i am, i trust him and I'm completely comfortable with everything we have done so far. It's just I know he assumes I'm not a virgin (i get a lot of male attention and he tells me I'm good at what we already do, not to mention there arent many 20 year old virgins out there). I just dont know how to tell him. I went and got the contraceptive implant about a week ago so I am so ready for sex with him now, it's just kinda hard to drop it in conversation that i've nver done it before, and i'm too scared of his reaction to say it right before we actually do it asit would kill the mood, and I really dont want him to go and tell his friends (i know guys talk about stuff) because I don't think I could take any jokes. PLease someone tell me how to go about it?!
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reader, shazz1991xoxo +, writes (21 March 2012):
 he'll be happy that u are and its good to tell him, just say u want it to be special and im sure he'll come up with the most romantic evening xoxo good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbecause I have never done it before , so i wont be the best, + it may hurt. he has been open with me about how many/ who he has slept with and as we are in a relationship i owe it to him to do the same.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (21 March 2012):
 WHY do you need to tell him?????
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (21 March 2012):
 In my opinion, "worldlywise" said it well. Just tell him. That is certainly nothing about which to be ashamed whatsoever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2012): Just tell him, tell him you wanted it to be special and thats why you have waited for the right lad.
He will, if he's decent and cares, think its a good thing, he will be flattered because he's the first and will not go telling his mates.
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