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writes:I met an incredible guy like two months ago...Since we met we had a nice time together..He told me he doesnt live here in my city....he was here for bussines..he works with his family and they travel a lot...They can stay 1 or 2 months en each place..not more...now he moved to another city.. we talk by phone and txt every time...He asked me for time. He said he really wants stay with me..he said I am the woman of his dreams...He loves me..he miss me..etc etc..He said he needs time to be independent and open his own bussines here in my city that way we can stay together...he asked me for one year...in the meantime we can flight to see each other.I really like him. I felt very good, is a guy that I never expected to meet! He treated me like a queen and he always cares about me...but I am not sure about this long distance relationship...Makes me tired/sad/frusted all day long talking by phone..texting back and forth...I dont know what to do. What if I am letting go the man of my life?? or What if I am wasting my time!?...Please Help!!..
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): Thank you soo much Lovelylemon for your kind answer. It is true... I work too much and I know I do need to find something else besides my job..sometimes in my days off I am soo bored and I dont really do much..I spend a lot of time watching movies...but I think I will need to do is outside stuff...
I do really like him...I want to give him a chance. I came out from a difficult relationship and being single for a year...I gave to myself some space/time.
I will make the effort.
Thanks again!
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reader, LovelyLemon +, writes (22 March 2012):
 Unfortunately life does not always allow for plans to follow through. It worries me that he promised you that in a year he would open his own business to be near you, because that sounds like a lofty promise. It's wonderful that he makes you happy when you are together, but you're also sad and frustrated most of the time because you are apart! Also, you have only known eachother for a couple of months, so it would be rather risky to commit to someone that you barely know. Long distance relationships are very difficult, and may result in straying from your partner or becoming emotionally distant.Just consider what is in front of you. A man that you will have to wait for, but may make you very happy if he pulls through. Or live in the moment and find happiness in your life now. Maybe you can be happy waiting by finding something to fill those sad times with happiness, like a hobby or pet.Much love and Best wishes
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