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writes:I have been seeing a guy for a few months, at first everything seemed great until he started acting strange disappearing not calling as much, texting ppl late etc... When I started pushing commitment he started saying I have too many make friends and he needed to have more time, I looked through his texts on his phone this morning and found pics of girls almost nude and a girl he was talking sexually with. I woke him up confronted him and told him to leave he is acting like I'm delusional and that this is my loss. is he definitely a dog?
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reader, katiekate +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Definitely get rid of this guy. And do it before he gets rid of you because, trust me, he will. This guy is playing the field and is clearly using you and will drop you in a heartbeat when he finds someone else. Stand up for yourself and dump him asap!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): Yeah, he's a dog but you aren't exactly waiting until you are exclusive/committed in a relationship to have sex either so it's not surprising. He would have been long gone initially had you required that and saved yourself all the grief.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Dirty dog, drop him.
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (12 March 2012):
Ignore his texts... and move on!
He is a dog, a pig and a complete player! This guy is not ideal boyfriend material. He will make you think that you are the crazy one (if you allow him to) but he is the one in the wrong.
He won't change - he will continue to do this behind your back cos he isnt that seriously in to you. Retain some dignity and find someone better... because you will, believe me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): Sex Addict, Cheating Behaviours, also has a porn/cell site addiction.
Unhealthy, untrustworthy.
Did the right thing and demonstrated you deserve the BEST From any guy and its his loser sorry ass Loss.
Remain kick butt and you'll find that Sweet Awesome Man Sauce.
*high fives*
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): Men that are caught will deny and blame you for snooping. Yes maybe you shouldn't snoop but if he wasn't bein shady you wouldn't have suspicions that need confirming in the first place.
I snooped on a BF that had pulled away but insisted he wanted to stay together. Guess what? He pulled away because he had someone else. I found FB messages and texts.
I cut him off cold turkey. You can't be loyal. You're done. Guess what? After 6 months he came back. Apologizing and even though he blamed me initially for snooping and over reacting - now he admits he was wrong ; knew he was wrong; knew he was caught and felt ashamed. So his response was to blame and be angry at me when now he says he was angry at himself for messing it up.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 March 2012):
 he's a dog... you're not delusional...
NEXT!
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reader, Played again +, writes (12 March 2012):
Played again is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I feel bad for snooping and he's acting like im crazy and denying things, does that mean he wants a future or just doesn't want to be honest hes still responds to my texts , nothing nice but blaming me and it's making me feel like I've done the damage I've given him so much and get a little in return but the sex is amazing we get along when we're together also... I don't trust him tho anymore
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (12 March 2012):
Yep. Especially blaming you when caught.
At least you know. Next.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Woof. I mean, yes.
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