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writes:My boyfriend of 10 months never gets jealous, and I don't understand why. I ask him this everynow and then but I try not to get into it because i would rather him be un-jealous like then super crazy jealous. We have a very close relationship so I still don't understand it!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 March 2012):
 No there is nothing wrong with him (or you) that is just not a major part of his personality. Doesn't mean he loves you less.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 March 2012):
 jealousy is an emotion rooted in insecurity it does not come from a place of love.
So many folks think a man must love you to be jealous but in actually, the only person a very jealous man loves is usually himself.
it's a good thing when there is little or no jealousy in a relationship.. it means that the partners are secure in their feelings for each other and the fact that they honor those feelings.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Your boyfriend is probably just very secure. I think a lot of jealousy comes from a fear of being left or cheated on, so your boyfriend must know you really love him. Don't worry about the lack of negative things in your relationship. There's no need to create tension just because you think it should be there. Enjoy your happy and secure boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): I see jealousy as a reaction to feeling threatened by someone/something. He probably just doesn't feel threatened by others.
I am a totally non-jealous guy too, by the way. For me, I usually feel I can trust my girlfriend because I am an insanely awesome boyfriend and we're happy together. And she's taken care of sexually too ;)
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 No it is not bad at all, as you said it is better that he doesnt get jealous compared to a crazy jealous controlling boyfriend!
This is just part of his personality, he is not a jealous person and that is fine - you should love him for who he is.
Your relationship is great, so stop pestering him about a part of his personality that cannot change. I am not a jealous person, I never have really felt jealousy at all. Even when my boyfriend meets up with his ex who he is still friends with, I really dont mind and dont feel jealous at all? Why dont I get jealous? Well I trust him and dont have a reason to feel jealous, I know my boyfriend loves me so that is all that matters.
Dont worry about silly things like this, some people are not the jealous type and it doesnt matter. You have a good relationship so dont worry about things you cannot change.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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