A
male
age
30-35,
*en345
writes:My 18 year old female friend at work tends to flirt a lot with me in bars and clubs, but I am not sure whether this is jokey or serious. She is NOT the type to go sleeping around or however you want to put it. She has not dated anyone for ages and has a strong personality. So I don't get the impression she does it to everyone. She often drags me up to the dancefloor, and always does this thing where she'll stand in front, stick her hands over her shoulders so I can hold them, and interlock fingers. Then she leads me over to the floor. We always put our arms round one another, and I was a little shocked when she told me she'd be back in a minute and ran her hand over my leg before leaving. I have caught her touching my hair at times too. Above all, we did end up kissing at a club a few months ago, which wasn't talked about afterwards. People might say 'well she obviously likes you'; but we were both tiddly, which complicates it.So would girls do this to their platonic friends or is she trying to send signals? I am confused. But I really like her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 If you really like her then go for it. Yes it does sound like you both like each other but both of you are waiting for the other to make a move, it will never happen if one of you don't stand up and make that move. So find some courage and ask her out on a date. My guess is that she will say yes and take things from there. Good luck.
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