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writes:my boyfriend split up with me in November and said this was because he didn't want a relationship after this we didn't speak until January when he said he wanted another go at things and he said he knew 100% that this is what he wanted and he'd been on his own since November and he'd not been able to think about another women. we got back together and since then things have been really good until i was on Facebook yesterday and saw on his profile that in November he had been in a relationship with his ex.. what am i ment to do/say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): What he "says" means nothing, what he "does" tells you everything you need to know.
If there may have been any previous doubt or denial, you can't help knowing now exactly the type of person he is.
"what am i meant to do/say?"
You honestly need to ask? You either respect yourself as a woman and a human being or you don't.
If you respect yourself you will walk away with pride and dignity intact. If you don't respect yourself he will weasel his way back into your affections with empty promises, shallow flattery, and shameless plays to your emotions he doesn't mean but you'll swallow whole.
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reader, Fate100percent +, writes (12 March 2012):
Sounds like he split with you to get back with his ex, and it obviously didn't work out. Maybe being with her made him realise that did want you...? But I'm guessing he more than likely got dumped by her and thought he'd see if you were still available.
He lied to you end of...
Do you really want to be with a liar? Ask him about it (just make sure it's face to face so you can see his body language while he tries to get out of it...!)
If you want to stay with him that's your choice but I think it will also niggle you in the back of your mind what other things he may have lied about.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 I wonder what else he lied about. Do you think you can trust him not to do the same thing again?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Exes are exes for a reason
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Sounds pretty simple to me. He lied, you caught him. Why would you still want to be with him? You can't say ahe cheated since you broke up, but he lied about being alone. That's not a very great way to start over with him now is it? I think you know what you need to do. End it.
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