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writes:Over the weekend I ended up at a bar in the company of a girl who I'm quite interested in and a few others. Being recently single, I'm not embarked on a crazed drive to find another girlfriend but I like to explore all possibilities shall we say. Somewhere through our conversation she broke off conversation with me and turned to her friend remarking that "there are so many hot guys in here". I interpreted the comment as a lack of interest in me on her part. I was just wondering, purely out of interest, what the wider community on Dear Cupid made of the comment? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): Personally I wouldn't say that to my friend in front of a guy I was just after talking to, unless I found him hot and hoped he heard.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 It could either mean she's not particularly interested, or she could have wanted you to hear that she also thinks you're hot. It's really hard to say. Why not try making a move (asking her out) and see what results from that?
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 It's no big deal...really! She probably was just engaging you in a "friendly" way and did'nt see you in "that" way. But no biggie, at least you got some time in to vibe with her and now that you know she isn't interested, it clears up the road for you to find that special someone as you went for it and have gotten her out of the way, just think....NEXT. So don't fret or ponder about her any longer, O.K.?
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