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writes:i was involved in a serious relationship with a guy for several years. Even though the relationship ended i still feel pain. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Linda80  +, writes (13 March 2012):
The first thing that you should do, in order to get rid of the pain, is to get rid of his pics. Delete all those photographs in your computer or mobile phone, where the two of you are looking happy together. Even get rid of those that have him standing alone, looking so handsome.Surround yourself with people who love you, be it your friends, family members or even your pet dog. Though they will not be able to replace him entirely, you will feel fortunate at having the love of so many people, a love that is unconditional and pure.Don't start going over the breakup time and again, mulling what went wrong and how did you two drift apart. Accept the fact that you two are no longer together and move on with your life. Going back into the past is neither going to bring him back, nor ease your pain.
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reader, abdg31 +, writes (13 March 2012):
keep your self busy
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): When did you finish? Your pain doesn't have a time limit. You just have to take each day as it comes. I ended a relationship in the last 6 weeks after being together for 18 months and I am over it because I actually hate him and that has made it easier!! In the past it has taken me months to get over someone but time is a great healer. Just be easy on yourself.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 March 2012):
 how long ago did the relationship end?
It can take a while for healing to occur.
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Hiyaaa,Don't punish yourself! Is the first thing you shouldn't do or blame yourself! Don't put yourself through that kinda torture! Obviously it's hard to get over your ex as you guys were in a serious relationship and its hard to get over those good memories that you guys had but sometimes things are not meant to be and you know you just gotta accept that move on. There are plenty more guys out there and to get over your ex just think about how free you are and no pain left, you can have fun. The thing is to ever get over a relationship you have to be determined and put the effort into getting over it, like honestly I think some people choose not to get over their ex coz they're always thinking about them. But if you truly wanna get over it you have to try and try really hard.Go on holiday! That could be an option, go and do things you wanna do like shopping or something, listen to songs. Those are the best options, especially listening to songs can help heal a broken heart. It will take time but you know just think about him being happy and you being happy, think of the bright side and that you guys can still be friends and still be in each other lives.Hope my advice helps!Good luck!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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