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writes:I'm 18, he's 17. We dated for 5 months, then he abruptly ended it. He said he didn't feel like he needed to be dating, and that I could wait until college. That was in November. I was hanging out with my bestfriend, his sister. Me and him started flirting, and eventually I ended up in his room, and we just laid on his bed and talked and cuddled. The next day, he said he just wanted to be friends. I ended up hanging out with my bestfriend again a few days later, in January. I swore to myself nothing would happen, but with all the circumstances, we ended up exactly how we were last time, cuddling and talking. Then we kissed. He continued to say he just wanted to be friends the next day. What do I do? I'm still madly in love with him, but he's moved on. He isn't dating anyone, and occasionally we flirt, but there is nothing more to it. Do I get over it and move on with my life, or wait for him? It's been about 4 months since we broke up. How do I get over him?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 March 2012):
 don't wait for him sweetie... he just does not want more than close friendship and if he was not your BF's brother I would tell you to go NC to get over him.
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reader, youknowwho +, writes (12 March 2012):
Well you could go out and date but make sure he knows he's important to you too. Maybe he isn't ready to be serious with anyone yet and he wants to explore his options. But always keep him close, it's going to hurt a bit but if you keep him close there is a chance that something could bring you guys together again.
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