A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Ok so there is this guy at my school and we met two years ago. He ALWAYS teases me and messes around with me. He flirts with me alot and makes lots of awkward faces at me to make me laugh. We are super close and he's my best friend. He told me he liked me last year and that he liked me since we met. But he told be that while he was dating my best friend... He always dated my friends. I don't know if he was trying to make me jealous or he actually liked them. I have always liked him too. But since he was dating all my friends, I lost hope in him ever going out with me So I started paying attention to other guys. And since I started doing that, he's trying to get my attention more. He would always whisper my name during class, or yell my name across the hallway. He would invite me to do more things with his outside of school.I've been to alot of movies with his guy. He invites me to come hang with him too. And he just broke up with my best friend, so she hates his guts. But I'm scared to tell her that I like him. I know the rule is "Sisters before Misters." but she's going to a different school than me next year and (I'll just pretend his name is Jordan) Jordan is going to my school. So if she's never going him for a while, then would it matter? And he always asks me who I like or if i don't tell him, he'll call me that night to try and get it out of me. I told him I liked him before, but he didn't do anything about it the first time. So it kind of made me upset. Since I'm going to the same school as him next year, should I just try and show him some more signs and flirt more or something? Cuz if I don't, I'm afraid he's just going to go out with a different friend of mine. I don't get it, all of my friends are EXACTLY like me, but he dates them istead of me. Am I not worth it to him? Am I' just one of the guys,' to him? Can you please give me some advice? I need it!! :(
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 July 2012):
 The best advice I can give you is to always put your friends before any men. It is a lesson to be learnt in life. If you had just broken up with a guy would you like your best friend to go running after him. Before you start flirting with him any more or giving him signs you need to be open and honest with your best friend, tell her how you feel and see what she has to say. Even though you are going to different schools it does not mean you can get with her ex boyfriend. So explain to her how you feel and ask her how she feels about it.
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