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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together around 9 months. We slept together for the first time around 3 months in, and it was my first time. As we live far away from each other, we only see each other every 2-4 weeks so in our 9 months we haven't slept together many times. Whenever we have sex it feels amazing, but for some reason he can't orgasm - he can from oral sex etc. but from intercourse he said he just can't get there, mainly due to the condom.Is there anything we can do/try to help this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2012): Don't worry about it, condoms + birth control is very wise. You or he can finish him off after intercourse it's not that big of a deal, tell him too not to masturbate for a few days before seeing you, that may help.
But I seriously wouldn't negotiate on the condom thing. No birth control is 100% and doubling up on it is smart plus there's always the possibility of contracting an STD, regardless of his faithfulness and how much you trust him, you only see him once or twice a month so you never know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am on birth control, but since its not 100% effective I didn't want to chance pregnancy!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (4 July 2012):
 Have you thought about other methods of birth control, like an IUD?
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