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*ibob
writes:what do you think of this behaviour? Is this person mentally dirturbed? I just met a guy to whom i gave my mobile number. He immediately started to text me. He said he was really smitten by me. I barely know him but he started to tell me that he loves me very much, that he's looking for a serious relationship with a woman. He revealed to me that he's already married but since several years, he and his wife are living as friends. His wife has rejected him when he wanted to have sex everytime. He no more goes to her. They hve a child who has cleft lip. Now he met me, pursuaded me to have sex with him. Later he dumped me as he said that he did not feel this spark between us.
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reader, tibob +, writes (9 July 2012):
tibob is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks a lot for your enlightening answers. I needed to understand so that i can move on. I have also came to the same conclusion. I just wanted to have the opinions of other people on this matter. He played with my feelings even if he said that he did not. From a person who has a child with a malformation, it's very very bad what he did. Yea, i went out with him although he was married because he fooled me. Karma will take care of him
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 July 2012):
 he's a user. He's a louse. he just wanted to get laid. he got what he wanted and he's done. not mentally disturbed just like Honeypie said... amoral.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 July 2012):
 He just used you for sex. Doesn't really make him mentally ill, just amoral, horny and selfish.
What makes me wonder is WHY you met up with him after he told you he was married....
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (4 July 2012):
Sadly it sounds like he was using you for sex, just telling you what he thought you wanted to hear, in order to get sex, and when he got it, he dumped you. That kind of obsessive texting and declaring his love straight away could be a sign that he isn’t psychologically healthy, but thinking about how he treated you after you met up, it’s more likely that it was an attempt to charm you in to sleeping with him. Don’t waste any more of your time trying to figure out his motives, forget about him!
I wish you all the very best.
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