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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:How can you tell when someone you are in a relationship is being honest about changing their ways? My boyfriend used to make profiles on sex sites and would talk sexually with women. This is his last chance to shape up or ship out. We have kids together and were at one point engaged. He is taking action, giving me passwords deleting accounts, but the feeling nags at me in the back of my head. I want to be sure this is a permanent change and not temporary. I love him, but refuse to be with a cheater. I deserve better. I want to trust him with everything and i can if he stops his behavior. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (4 July 2012):
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He sounds like he is making the effort, being open, you don't know if it will last, but for now, I would say he IS being honest with you. He's had his wake up call
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (4 July 2012):
 There is no magic way to know if someone is being honest. You can try to see if they're behaving strangely or check up on them ever once in a while, but that's it. Either you trust them to change or you live with paranoia. I may sound pessimistic but it's the truth as far as I can see.
I truly wish you the best of luck.
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