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writes:i have sex when im only in grade school.. but after that i never commit sex again, now im 22 years old.. did my virginity win back after so many years? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2012): Virginity is not something you win. The absence of a past experience doesn't make anyone superior to you. If you felt it was a mistake, you clearly have made up for it and shown great control of your body. You may not be a virgin, but the real purity that matters is purity of mind, making decisions that show you love and respect yourself and your partner. Anyone who holds something against you that happened to you as a child isn't worth your time. You are pure enough to deserve love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2012): NO! Of course you're not a virgin.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (4 July 2012):
 No, I'm sorry to say you are not a virgin.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 July 2012):
 No, there is no "do-over". You are just sexually inexperienced.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (4 July 2012):
No, You can’t be a virgin again. You are a virgin if you have never had sex. I’ve heard talk of people starting out again as if they were a virgin, they get it wrong the first time, and they want to do things so differently the next time around that it feels like starting all over again, a bit like losing their virginity again. But it’s not the same. So no you are not a virgin, but don’t get too preoccupied about this, it doesn’t mean you can’t start over again when it comes to having sex and doing things differently from last time, if that’s what you want.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2012): Nope. Once you lose it, it is gone for good.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 July 2012):
 nope. you are not a virgin again although it may feel like that...
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (4 July 2012):
 No, you would not be a virgin again.
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