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female
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30-35,
*efi
writes:me and my boyfriend lost our virginities to each other, so we're quite new to the sexual life; all is fine and fun, but one problem is bugging me..we have NEVER reached orgasm.. we would have sex in many diffrnt positions, for such a long time, but we get nowhere. i have experienced orgasm through oral during him gettin at my g-stop, but never through sex..and HE has never even HAD an orgasm before (and he DOESNT masterbate).. even with a long blowjob, it just doesnt work, it makes me think im not good enough for him x_xis it normal? can this be helped?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2011): there is nothing wrong.Usually guys go off sooner than girls but if you find that its taking a while then you should do a lot of foreplay to get off faster.That being said is he starting sex or are you? if you are then he might not be "ready" and doesnt say so because he wants to make you happy Also you should know tht girls dont orgasm every time so you need to find a position you are comfortable with and in as guys usualy get off over just being in the act if this doesnt work thn are you just being impatient?also you need to face him so you can "read" himGOOD LUCK
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reader, be11is  +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Hey girly,
Sorry to hear about your frustration, maybe I could help.
Try asking each other your fantasies, what you always wanted someone to do to you kinda stuff. For the BJ they can be tricky to make a guy reach an orgasm. I'll give you a link of this article written by a guy who gives you a few tips.
http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com/
Good luck!
- Be11is x
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