A
female
age
26-29,
*actus40
writes: I'm in love with a boy, and it sucks. its like i have this cord rapped around me and it wont loosen. he calls me all the time, and he lends me stuff like keyboards and said he would teach me the piano, and gives me scarves when im cold, and askes to come round to my home( even my grandmothers) all the time. i thought he might possibly like me, but we where talking on facebook and he said he liked my best friends best friend. i'm trying to be mature and calm, but my heart hurts so much. how can i stop this? because we do talk all the time, and i guess now its because were friends. i hate this. i just dont wont to be like those girls in the movies, who cry over guys. i understand why they do that now.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (11 November 2011):
It is not nice feeling hurt or rejected, believe me we all understand that, but it is all part of growing up. I guess you just need to tell him now how you feel. Who knows it may have been a test to see what you would say or else maybe he does just look at you as a friend. But either way you need to allow him to see that he has options. So tell him that you like him and see what he has to say. You have nothing to lose.
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