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writes:Okay, so I had sex with a friend of mine. He isn't my best friend, however, I feel like I can talk to him about anything. I also feel that he can talk to me about everything, as we can talk for hours. So the situation occurred after a night that I had been drinking. He had just got off work and had not been drink. So after talking for hours. He made the first move. I would have never done so. I had/have a huge crush on this guy and wouldn't have wanted to change our relationship.Now I feel like it has gotten weird. I texted him once and he didn't respond till my second text a few days later. He told me he was sorry, but he was really busy this coming weekend...I don't want to loose his friendship as it is really important to me and I love talking with him. How do I not make it weird? I feel we should talk about it, am I right or wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThings are still weird and I haven't been given/had the opportunity to discuss this with him. :/
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reader, Htsn47 +, writes (9 November 2011):
 Yes, you should talk about it. But it seems like you need to do some thinking yourself, too. You say you have a huge crush on him - does part of you want this to be more than a friends/platonic relationship? Best friends to lovers is awkward, but some might say it's a terrific base for a relationship. What is it you want?
It's possible/probable he's feeling the same way you are.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 You can think of sex in two ways; An emotional(love) relationship. or; a physical activity- like push-ups with benifits. So now define it whichever way you like
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