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writes:I am currently in a long distance relationship with a woman right now and she is becoming dissatisfied with the distance. Neither one of us can afford an airline ticket right now and she is not sure we can maintain this for long if we don't meet soon. She wants more romance from this and I'm not sure how I can be romantic if we live so far apart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2011): My longdistance boyfriend and I organise a time to be online together, and we have a meal together via skype, we call it our date night. We also organise to watch movies together where we are online together and start the movie together and talk about it as we are watching it. It helps to make us feel closer together. I know that it can sound corny, but when it's long-distance it's the best you can do until you can be together. Letters and presents are a great idea too. Making video mesages for each other is great too, I love when my boyfriend does these little things for me, and it helps me feel like we are closer together. I hope this helps, Good Luck.
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reader, goldengirl88  +, writes (10 November 2011):
You could always send her flowers! Make a video where you do something special and send it to her. Letters and skype are good ideas. Go to the same movie at the same time, even though your not together etc. Make up was with you or if you were with her, you could do this in the video. I think yeah the presents and everything are really good ideas as well. write her some poetry etc.
good luck and have soem fun, be creative effort is effort and im sure she will appreciate anything you do for her:)
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (10 November 2011):
 First matter of business will be to write LETTERS! I know this is a lost art, and who really sends and receives letters these days, but let me tell you, letters are awesome! Write her some meaningful letters, send her some presents or meaningful tokens in packages, make video tapes or recordings(you can send those via e-mail even). Basically, go out of your way to create something just for her.
The most common and most practical option would be to do Skype. You'll be able to talk ever day, but consider implementing the other suggestions I mentioned above, as they are more romantic and indicate effort.
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