A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I started going out on dates with an old friend. We've known each other 5 years but things never moved on before now. He pursued me asked me out to a party and we had a great time. He wrote the next day to say thanks and asked me out again the next day for that weekend The next date was off to a rocky start because I got stuck at work late and almost cancelled he seemed angry so I made it work but maybe that was a mistake to not honor my instinct.Never the less we enjoyed our night alot and he wrote to me the next day to say so. There was some intimacy involved on the second date but nothing X rated :) I actually told him I don't sleep with people casually and I wasn't sure his intentions - which he said he wasn't trying to use me or anything. I dont think either of us was immapropriate.Anyway that date was almost 6 days ago and aside from a few texts we've had NO interaction. No plans made, phone calls, nada.I was the last one to ask how he was 2 days ago and since then heard nothing back :(Im not feeling too optimistic here but curious of other opinions
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2011): Update
He called tonight finally after all
I held back as long as I could and really glad I did :)
In all honesty I think he's having financial issues that keep him
From asking me out
That's a whole other query now
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 Well it seems that up until now he has made all off the effort to arrange date's with you. If you like this guy and want to see how it goes well then why not ring him and ask him would he like to meet up with you. At least then he can see that you are trying as well. If he brushes you off well then I guess he is not for you.
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