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female
age
41-50,
*lassic events
writes:Hi guys, i am so confused and sad. My husband has been outside the country for almost 3 months now. He rarely calls. When he does it is usually for short time. He is so jealous, if i tell him i hav gone out with lady friends, he calls and shouts at me, accusing me of cheating. And then ignores my messages. He doesnt want me to go out with friends, even to visit my own relatives, he is always suspicious and i always feel afraid to tell him i have gone shopping. It pains me and i feel abused by his threats and suspicions. He doesnt send emails regularly, only when i send, sometimes he doesnt reply. If i want to chat he says he is busy and ignores or goes offline. If i ask him about it he says he is too busy or does not have time to chat. I am so sad and lonely. Does it mean he communicates with someone else and maybe doesnt love me anymore. We have been married for 5 years now with one daughter, he will be coming home by end of month. Guys is this relationship still intact??
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (9 November 2011):
It sounds like he is not interested in having a loving healthy marriage but you are married so you should wait until he comes home and try to have an adult sit down calm conversation and find out why he's been behaving this way. Was he jealous and mean like this before he left?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2011): No
He doesn't even sound like he is IN this relationship!
I would hazzard a guess that he is accusing you of what he is doing himself,it happens alot.
I would wait till he's home and then insist you sit and talk, because you two are partners,adults with a child, he's not your father and you a naughty teenage daughter.
Once you have got your feelings across,face to face, then decide what you want to do.
Good luck
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