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writes:Your thoughts will be appreciated. Thank you, I need to write and for somebody to listen :) So just a summary, because I've written many ...My boyfriend of 9 months cheated on me with a LDR in another country thru this computer and skype. I don't think the girl knows about me. I confronted him and asked him to choose one. He denied everything,so I left and a few days later he texted me. I deleted the texts but he basically said that I gave up on him and that he that he never asked for more and that if I wanted we could have a FWB. I asked for him to tell me what is going on with the other girl and he said "we can have a FWB but I'm not saying nothing else, when I'm with you,I will be with you and if you ever need help, I will help." I don't understand why he said that I gave up on him, and I told him that he was the one that gave me up for somebody else. He said "I don't have anybody here, but that could change."At first I told him I would think about it, that was yesterday, but today, I don't want to see him nor talk to him or her ever again.Thanks ...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 November 2011):
 Yes, he wants you for booty calls. Someone to sleep with when he feels like having sex with someone familiar.
He sounds like a piece of work.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 November 2011):
 I'm sorry, I really don't understand your post. Your boyfriend of 9months has been on skype with someone living far away. Has he met her, do they have phone/video sex.
Then he wants to be your FWB? But aren't you already his woman, aren't you two already having sex. What does this mean? Is he going to have sex with you but date other people? Is he going to introduce you as his friend whilst he plays the single man. How old is this man? Does he have mental problems?
It is confusing. If a guy I'm dating, after 9months starts flirting with someone else and then says he only wants me for sex, I'd dump him.... very loudly and very angrily.
This guy sounds like scum or he's very,very ill mentally.. your right, don't see him or talk to him ever again.
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