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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: does my FWB really love me? me and him have been friends with benefits for 2 years. he keeps getting girlfriends and breaking up with them because he gets "bored" but he has been a fwb with me for 2 years.I love him more than words can say and he knows this, and admits it too. but only when he is drunk. he says that he doesn't deserve me and that im too good for him, and that he would just "fuck it up" if we were ever to be in a relationship and he says he doesnt want to ruin that (he has had a history of cheating on his past girlfriends.... most of them with me) but he says he wants to "have fun" while he's young (hes just 18) but says he would love to settle down with me in later years and have children with me. is it really true that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts? when he told me he loved me just 3 months ago, he was drunk but when he was saying it he was crying. he has some issues, he attempted suicide by trying to jump off our pier in our village on that night he confessed his love for me because his father has cancer and has been fighting it for years. i can understand the problems he is having but should i really wait years for him? i love him so much and i can't bear to lose him , it would break my heart if i saw him have children with someone else in the future. we are also best friends and tell each other everything. he has been single for 2 weeks now since breaking up with his recent girlfriend of 23 (he was just 17 when they started dating!!) and we always go into this vicious circle of him texting a lot of girls and using me as a "last resort" if he is feeling lonely etc. he treats me horribly but as a best friend he is amazing. what should i do?
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