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writes: hi im 19 an me and my boyfriend of a year and a half have decided to take our relationship to tha next level(sex) but when we tryed we had problems because im a little tight (down there) any suggestions to make things easier Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): My boyfriend and I definitely have the same problem occasionally. It use to be painful when we first started having sex because of how tight I was. To my annoyance, and his pleasure, I'm still rather tight, but lubrication and ampule foreplay reduces any discomfort while I adjust during the first minutes of intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): Have your boyfriend finger you to loosen you up. Don't just use two fingers, use four! it will open up for sex and go back to normal after
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): i was the same way my first time, it will probably hurt the first few times so just push through it and then its great :) any sort of lubricant will make things easier. condoms are lubricated so they help too
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