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*23uandme
writes: so me and my bf have been dating for about 5 months on and off... but it seems like im the only one trying to be romantic and wanting to see him. he has NEVER taken me on a date... i REALLY want to go on a date with him.how do i hint that to him .? Reply to this Question
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reader, 123uandme +, writes (6 May 2010):
123uandme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys. well if 6 months comes up and nothing happens well then ill speak to him... :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 Your b/f is the laid back type and very predictable .
You need to speak to him about initiating things and giving you surprises.
Tell him that you would be very happy if he can initiate things sometimes .You got to put that idea into his mind.
It is supposed to be the man that initiates things but the present day men are laid back and expecting the women to initiate everything for them.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 Well I know that sounds lame,but often the right way is the simplest way. Just ask him. Tell him, I enjoy spending time with you at home, but I thought that every now and then would be nice if we would go out together,just you and me, to a restaurant or a show or something.
He should not be upset or surprised,what you want is very normal.
Maybe he is just a lazy guy, or maybe his previous girlfriends were all homebodies- anyway most men are not good at taking hints, you just have to tell them plain and simple what you would like.
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reader, 123uandme +, writes (6 May 2010):
123uandme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell ok we are in a relationship...
we do everything the bf /gf do. eventually working towards a marriage. but he has never taken me on a date. i been out for lunch with his family and him and we have cooked for each other but its never just us two, him asking me to go somewhere with him....
is it something that maybe i ask?
but isn't he the man in the relationship? the one who should initiate?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): How is he your BF if you have never been on a date? What do you mean by that? How can you be dating someone if you don't actually date?
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reader, 123uandme +, writes (6 May 2010):
123uandme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok i just re read that.... i worded it kinda wrong... he is a real sweetie... he does nice things fro me but i have to always initiate them.... all i want is to go out somewhere with him on a date and for him to organize it all...
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