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*oodyblue
writes:*OP's own title*i have been married for four years to a wonderfull man but these past four months i have been having an affair with a man i see at work everyday. when it started we both agreed it was just a bit of fun, but just recently i cant get him out of my mind. he is on holiday at the mo(with his gf) and i told him not to contact me, i thought it would give me a bit of space to sort my head out. i know im falling hard for him. he txt me one day into his holiday and pretty much everyday since then. he buys me things too, chocolate, teddys, jewelery. now my question is does this seem like a man that just wants a bit of fun or does he want more??? hes told me things arent going well between him and his gf, but hes not said anything to me about how he feels towards me.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 He sees you as his for sure lay, a desperate house wife, he can have sex with you enjoy hours of fun without the responsibilities, commitment, or love. See when wifey gets mad and sends him out to the couch he can get his sexual frustration out on you. So why do you think he wines you and dine you.....To keep you happy this way you don't leave him, see now he has you where he wants you, because now you think he has feelings for you. So back to your question I think he just wants you for fun.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (6 May 2010):
What is it you are doing? You are getting into a terrible mess that is all I can see happening?
You must sort out yourself first!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 May 2010):
You're being used for sex. That's it. So go home to your 'wonderful' husband and start working on your marriage. It's a well known fact that women come off worse from affairs than men. You can be sure that right now this other guy isn't thinking about you at all. He's just using you. Go home and work on your marriage before you end up alone.
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