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writes:New question. My partner has been calling his ex's and the previously mentioned facebook people I have been concerned about. Several calls a day and many texts. I discovered this when he ignored a call from one of them in front of me and I saw the caller ID and he lied about who it was so that prompted my checking into the phone bill. I confronted him and told him it hurt my feelings mainly because he was hiding it, that's what hurt me the most. He said he needed someone to talk to, his words where he didn't care who it was just someone. Should I be concerned or am I overreacting?
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reader, brighter_than_sunshine +, writes (8 May 2010):
 I would be concerned. Why can't he talk to you? I think he is just making excuses. I have dealt with this whole talking to the ex ordeal. Most of the time if a guy is talking to his ex it is never a good thing. There is a difference. If he is saying to his ex "Hey how ya been, hows life, etc." that is usually nothing to worry about. But if he is hiding this from you there probably is a reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): Have you asked him what it is he needs to talk about, and why he can't confide in you? If they have his number and they call in your presence it should be no problem with him conversing with them in front of you, if nothings transpiring.
Good luck
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