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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2 months. He always staring at me, doing nice things for me, and wanting to spend time with me. He totally accepts me for who I am. I have mentioned to him a few times how comfortable I feel around him, and he says he has never felt as comfortable around anyone else before. He's always looking at me in my eyes for long periods of time when he kisses me. Today I really felt like he wanted to say he loved me, and I said it first...its just slipped out unplanned, although that is how I really feel. He kissed me a few times and then said "you to". Now I'm confused. Did I read his signal wrong? Did I accidently say it to soon? Should I back off a bit? Does he really feel the same, but was just not ready?
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reader, PixiLaTed  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 If the things you're feeling (the looking into eyes etc) is from BOTH sides and not just you seeing what you want to see (which I don't think it is), then there's a pretty good chance that he's feeling what you're feeling! When I was 16, my BF said it first (actually we both smsed each other 143 and 1432 a day before - gotta love the technological age :P) and I actually couldn't say it back. I felt self conscious. Never having said it before, it seemed weird, and I couldn't get the words out. And I'm a chick! This poor guy!
I said it a few weeks later when it seemed 'right'. I wouldn't rush this guy of yours. I reckon he feels it too, and I think ure lucky to get a 'you too'. More than my bf got lol!
So say it again if you want, don't put pressure on him and DON'T - DO NOT!- make it a 'thing'. He will run if you get emo and start whining about why he hasn't said it:)
Good luck! x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 1 and 1/2 month can be pushing things a bit. Its early. I know some love fast (like myself), but others can take years. Some believe they will only say "I love you" to the person they will marry.
In this case, you might have read the signals right, that this is how he feels, but he needs more time to tell you. Its one thing knowing in your heart that you love, and quite another to tell them! Sit back, relax, enjoy the relationship, and rest assured he will tell you he loves you when he feels the time is right.
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