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writes:my girlfriend dumbed me last year,our relation was for 4 years.[actually i went to meet my parents, out of station for 15 days.but due to some problem i had to stay there fore whole one month.moreover i could'nt call her up for 3 days.when i came back i tried to call her up,but she told me that she loves another guy now.i was totally heart broken.this was only not enough for her.she slept with him many times.she used to call me up and describes how she got satisfied with him more than me.ibegged her a lot to come back,but she wouldnt listen a word to me.i went on a depression.i was admitted in hospital for 1 week.my parents,my friends,cousins everybody were tensed regarding me,specially my mom.i couldnt bear the pain ,hearing my girlfriend slept with another guy.i suffered a lot. months passed , one day, after around six months sherang me up crying and told she has understood her mistake and wanted to come back to my life,.i accepted her, as i loved her a lot but nothing is like before.i tried a lot to trust her again ,but those words of her strikes every time in my mind,and the feeling of having sex with another guy kills me each and every time.i love her,but i just wanted to make her feel how one feels when his partner gets involved in sex with someone else.(just a simple revenge).....please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): Don't get reinvested in this girl. You will be in for more of the same heartbreak if you do.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 I think you should just leave her, she does not sound like the girl you should be with.
I can understand having a moment of weakness and cheating,but did she need to tell you all the details and rubbing salt in the wound,so to speak ? No. This was insensitive and cruel.
I think that fater the initial heartbreak you'll be better off without her.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 NO, You accepted her back into your life, because you say you love her. This means you forgive the past. If you want revenge and to make her feel hurt, then I'd have to question if you really loved her at all.
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